Wifey complains that husband she cheated on demeans her for cheating on him

[MatureDJ]

The hamster speaks!

http://chicago.suntimes.com/lifestyles/dear-abby-husband-wont-stop-jeering-me-for-cheating/

I have been with my husband for 12 years, married for three. I had an affair a little over a year ago that he found out about. He has let me back into the house, but he demeans my character at every opportunity.

My opinion: Men have evolved to treat cuckolding women a lot worse than simply "demeaning" them, Honey.

 

[speed dawg]

I am with Abby on this one. If the cuck husband is going to take her back, he needs to forget about the cheating. If he doesn't like it, leave. It's really that simple.

 

[dude99]

It's a catch 22. There are consequences for our actions. The consequences here for her cheating is a husband who now won't let it go and treat her like garbage.

Now that she is demeaned and hurt for his treatment, she is reaching out to the current dear abby and looking for her or someone to cottle her and treat her like she is the victim.

Is he wrong because she cheated? No.
Does he have the right to treat her like crap now? No. So what does one do?

She cheated obviously she doesn't love him but did she cheat because he treated her like crap? Who knows.

Perhaps they should just walk away from eachother because they have no relationship.

I do like how she did try to downplay her bad behaviour "i had a little affair that he found out about." Little affair.

Question though. She is pregnant again. Is the kid her husbands?

 

[Who Dares Win]

He probably didnt kick her out of the house cause he was too lazy or busy to find a new one or simply had other stuff to do than reviewing his home routine.

Its not the best life choice but I can understand him, regarding the woman he probably considered her as useful as forniture except that he needed a reason to openly treat her as such.

Probably he just kept her home but downgraded her to fvck buddy in terms of efforts and commitment.

 

[BetterCallSaul]

The man does not have self-respect, thus causing his own problems dealing with this low grade woman. Part of the reason he is in this situation and feels like $hit is his own blue pill behavior.