i split up from my wife not from being what i thought beta, but from suffering from pyschosis and we were drinking to much to mask our problems.....my behaviour was too much for her.. and i admit in my attempt to reconcile made all the mistakes(unknowingly) pursued....blew up her phone, flowers the lot got to get..... whats the point? replies
i sorted my life out hit the gym and scoured this forum and coreys vids sitting here absorbing the lot
please remember i have had to tailor my behaviour to my specific path
*i followed the advice of asking twice to meet up any BS walk away never initiate again but dont ignore(keep convos short) that was 5 weeks ago after she heard i was dating someone and still sidetracked my advances...
i kept on reading so i didnt slip up and reset the progress of attraction. I never realised before how many blokes are **** at this ..i was one of them.
here is my advice i took her clean off her pedastal as she is far from perfect herself
*i date other women but do not be ****y about this, every road i turn down has a IDGAF sign but its a very polite sign..
*I have an abundance attitude instead of a I MUST FIX THIS NOW AS IT WILL FALL THROUGH MY HANDS attitude..
*every reply to anyone apart form my dad and daughter by text is indifferent its so powerful
i have also added inactions into this instead of actions
I dont initiate with this woman whatsoever since that last time i asked to meet up
3 weeks ago i got a daytime txt asking if im ok i replied... her side was vague, i left the convo a few texts in! no mention from her to meet up.......good but not good enough
2 weeks ago she initiates again later at night, I said i can txt but cant talk, as she wanted to call(to spk about her kid) Important your not with your ex anymore no need to listen to her emotional **** but be polite few txts then change convo...she then hit me with WHO ARE YOU WITH? WHAT YA DOING???...ill be honest a little part of me wanted to txt back are you for real woman ive offered to meet you for months on end you self absorbed peck....lmao wrong thing to do kept cool left convo told her to call me the night after, she said ok but never called, didnt bother me would have before
Friday she messaged again we exchanged a few texts and it was prob one of our best short convos however she told me her window was broke in her car the old me would have said fetch me and ill fix!! the new me basically said thats a shame !! she left the convo a bit later on an "Ok" txt as i was also typing something, the old me from months ago would have put HAVE YOU GONE BED?? HELLO??...this is exactly what all your exes orbiters are doing take note along with "MORNING BABE", my phone got put straight on the side!!! this will have her wondering i believe!
shes gone to a theme park today with her kids i really want to txt her to see if shes had a good day...but i cant i will never initiate contact with this woman again until she brings up meeting with me last time i did this she backs off for weeks how unreal all this
im far from an expert on all this but i hope my post helps others. Take in mind 2 months ago i was blocked from all contact and she basically hoped id drown
my action with other women has 5 folded aswell in weeks all because of my above lifestyle changes/reading all this..
fantastic sosuave!
i sorted my life out hit the gym and scoured this forum and coreys vids sitting here absorbing the lot
please remember i have had to tailor my behaviour to my specific path
*i followed the advice of asking twice to meet up any BS walk away never initiate again but dont ignore(keep convos short) that was 5 weeks ago after she heard i was dating someone and still sidetracked my advances...
i kept on reading so i didnt slip up and reset the progress of attraction. I never realised before how many blokes are **** at this ..i was one of them.
here is my advice i took her clean off her pedastal as she is far from perfect herself
*i date other women but do not be ****y about this, every road i turn down has a IDGAF sign but its a very polite sign..
*I have an abundance attitude instead of a I MUST FIX THIS NOW AS IT WILL FALL THROUGH MY HANDS attitude..
*every reply to anyone apart form my dad and daughter by text is indifferent its so powerful
i have also added inactions into this instead of actions
I dont initiate with this woman whatsoever since that last time i asked to meet up
3 weeks ago i got a daytime txt asking if im ok i replied... her side was vague, i left the convo a few texts in! no mention from her to meet up.......good but not good enough
2 weeks ago she initiates again later at night, I said i can txt but cant talk, as she wanted to call(to spk about her kid) Important your not with your ex anymore no need to listen to her emotional **** but be polite few txts then change convo...she then hit me with WHO ARE YOU WITH? WHAT YA DOING???...ill be honest a little part of me wanted to txt back are you for real woman ive offered to meet you for months on end you self absorbed peck....lmao wrong thing to do kept cool left convo told her to call me the night after, she said ok but never called, didnt bother me would have before
Friday she messaged again we exchanged a few texts and it was prob one of our best short convos however she told me her window was broke in her car the old me would have said fetch me and ill fix!! the new me basically said thats a shame !! she left the convo a bit later on an "Ok" txt as i was also typing something, the old me from months ago would have put HAVE YOU GONE BED?? HELLO??...this is exactly what all your exes orbiters are doing take note along with "MORNING BABE", my phone got put straight on the side!!! this will have her wondering i believe!
shes gone to a theme park today with her kids i really want to txt her to see if shes had a good day...but i cant i will never initiate contact with this woman again until she brings up meeting with me last time i did this she backs off for weeks how unreal all this
im far from an expert on all this but i hope my post helps others. Take in mind 2 months ago i was blocked from all contact and she basically hoped id drown
my action with other women has 5 folded aswell in weeks all because of my above lifestyle changes/reading all this..
fantastic sosuave!
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