"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I don't know how many of you watch or follow the NBA but this is crazy. Dude that plays for the Jazz, Andrei Kirilenko besides having the coolest nickname in the NBA (AK-47) also has the coolest wife in the NBA, maybe the world. His wife lets him sleep with one other woman per year! He gets a "sex allowance" lmao! check it out. His wife is also kinda cute too.


picture of his wife
http://media.bonnint.net/slc/1/137/13706.jpg

short article about the story
http://deadspin.com/sports/nba/kiri...-women-say-uh-thanks-but-no-thanks-157976.php
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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djSlvt said:
Other side of the coin. She controls the number of women he can sleep in a year.

And still on the other side, he's giving her a rich and famous lifestyle while she's banging every dude in town and then "allowing" him one per year.
 

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1. if you think that he is only sleeping with his alloted "1" woman a year, you ar esick


2. if you think someone in Mormon town isn't give her the business while he is out of town, you are even sicker

However, that is pretty cool. They aren't American (neither, both are from Russia), maybe that's how they get down over there.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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His wife is a "3" and she don't let him do shyt he isn't going to do anyway!!! She is sucking another man penis - such is the arrangement!!!!
 

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So does he get to nail this groupie as many times as he wants in a year? Or just once?

And that chick is like a 6 at best, probably a 5 without makeup.
 

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wtf is wrong with you guys, his wife is beautiful

And this story is sad.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Obsidian said:
wtf is wrong with you guys, his wife is beautiful
Eh, some of us really aren't attracted to rather average looking blonde chicks with giant foreheads. But whatever floats your boat man.
 

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I think his wife looks pretty good, but women letting their husband's have sex with other women is not that uncommon. I know some women personally who actually likes to watch their men fvcking another girl. I don't get it, but it turns them on they say. But, these women also have sex with other men, so I'm sure this blonde has sex with other men too and her husband must be ok with it.
 

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come on.. a 3? I mean I don't think she is HOT but she isn't ugly by any means. i wouldn't be ashmed to take her in pubic.. for gods sake, she's a pop icon in Russia for crying out loud.

But she just doesn't have the body type that I look for. I mean, she's the type of girl that is cute enough where if she just made it 110% clear she wanted to do it with me, I probably would, but I'm not going out of my way to persue her.

I just perfer petite leggy women with tighter faces
 

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i've seen her before, so I know who she is. I stand by my comments... a SOLID AS HELL 7
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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this is sad. just a further example of the deterioration of marriage these days.

sad sad sad.

i say if you cant handle just one woman than you shouldnt get into a relationship in the first place.

and do u guys honestly think she is a good wife? come on, she "lets" him do it? wat is she his master?

and no wife would make a deal like this without a price. she definently wh0ring around with other rich young studs. she only made that deal so she wont feel guilty for wat she's doing.

wake up guys.
 

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dude... you are 18

you have no idea what the dynamics of a good marrige should and can be.

your standards of marriage don't apply to everyone. Open marriages are common across the world. Pologmay is not as uncommon as you might think also.

just becuase what she does doesn't go with your christain raising, don't shame him or us for it.

I mean, I don't believe in marriage anyway, but read a book and grow up before you start passing judgement
 

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^^^^
i kno damn well wat a good marraige is my friend. and that's not it. im not shaming you for sleeping around, im against that but wat ever floats your boat.

but i am shaming those who cant keep a commitment. people are not mature enough to keep commitments anymore. you guys are still stuck in child bf/gf land. the "if i dont like it then i can always leave mindset" is not the same with marraige. marraige is not just another random hookup and shouldnt be treated as such. if people really new wat marraige was saying they wouldnt get into it as quickly as they do, only to get hurt. when u get married, you're saying im spending the rest of my LIFE with you. you're not saying i'll spend time with you and when we have problems i'll take me big bad DJ self and find another wife. it's not the same. it's a commitment

and most of you guess are so brainwashed by society and this PUA mess that u see a loving relationship and marraige a bad thing. i dont see fvcking around as forefilling, but that's just me. like it or not you PUA's are always gonna be alone. having a fvck buddy isnt gonna help that either, you're still gonna be alone, just with pleasure.

YOU are the one that needs to grow up man. if you favor slvts over a gf then u really need to get out of highschool
 

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You don't know crap. You want to show that you do to affirm yourself. This is a case of "I'm better than you".

You're young and lack objectivity, and you have that desire to prove yourself. At first you put yourself above backbreacker, and then you put yourself above "most of us".

Objectively speaking, backbreacker is right about you. You have no idea what the dynamics of a good marriage should and can be. But you are too immature to accept this fact. :down:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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