"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Usually when I go out to sarge I get good responses (numbers ) and their from really hot girls.This weekend however I went to this gathering and the girls their weren't as hot but I got deaded by most of them. This isnt the first time I always seem to have better luck with older or hotter girls than with girls younger or not as hot. Could someone please explain this to me ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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different girls have different tastes or maybe your game wasn't up to par. Younger girls tend to go for guys who are a bit wilder and older ones for guys who are slightly more mature. Maybe you just ended up with a bunch of high self-esteem, high maintenance girls that night. Who knows? I can't really give a straight answer, I'm tired as hell lol.
 

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well, from personal experience i noticed that gaming doesnt work too well with chix who r 14 n under because their whole psychological shyt is dfrnt n ya no how they want all that "romance" n shyt happening b4 they even go out
but dont let it harm ur game man, sumtimes even 15 yr old chix suk ass, but fuk 'em just go for the 1z ur gud at for now
 

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I think im to wild for them i read in a pook post that less hot girls are usually more intimidated by guys like me. He said the extreme masculine male will usually attract the extreme feminine female ie beautiful girls those uglier girls probably are basically less feminine, afc girls so they were probably denying their sexuality in rejecting me. Like how nice guys deny their sexuality by being to nice they probably were atraccted but were way to shy cause they probably didnt get how a guy like me could go for someone like them.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Older/Hotter Girl = more experienced, confident, usually knows how to get what she wants, plays the game better, etc.
 
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