"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ok,
This chick in my math class is new to the school, she sits up front and doesnt talk. im not in any of her other classes but apperently she talks HEAPS in her other classes.. Im wondering whats the best way to approach and get this chick talking/sitting at me and my mates table, shes very hittable just on her body its fan ****ing tastic, anyway i talk the most in that class with funny remarks and ****, so i duno
I should just ask her to sit with me yer? and ask her bout her past and let her blab on !
what you guys recon, any good ideas, by the way its maths class
 

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by the way its maths class
yeah you told us ;). Though I donno what difference it makes.

Try sliding in next to her as you are walking out of the class and then just naturally ask her questions like "What do you think of this school so far". Then introduce yourself to her and ask her if she wants to come sit with you and your friends at lunch.
 

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ahha, i play indoor soccer every lunch so i dont think she can play :>
As for leaving class, wont it be a cold approach like i have NEVER spoken directly to her, i know her name from role calls and **** but thats it. When she walks in the room should i just say "sit her with me" im sure she would, ahha ,im scared she might not be able to see properly cause she sits up front, another girl i friends with has to sit up front so she can see but i doubt this new girl has problems. Yer more ideas please
Oh yer, by me asking her to sit next to me does that make me seem asif im interetes thus knowing i like her, alothough I WOULD NOT let her play me, or is letting her know i like her a good thing ?
 

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1. Class starts.
2. Walk in room, sit next to her.
3. "Hi, what's your name?" blahblahblah
4. Tell mates to stfu if they start "ooooh-ing and ahh-ing."
5. Fluff talk, c+f, SS whatever. Talk about anything really, where she's from, where she lives, hows the school, how's the class blahblahblah.
6. Teacher tells you to shut up.
7. Do work.
8. End of lesson, number close. "Lemme give you a call sometime, what's your number?"
9. Read the bible.

Yeah, something to that effect. :)
 

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ahha sweet,i dun wanna bail on my mate whos sitting next to me up the back :?, haha should i just take over someone elses table who normaly sits there ! **** EM !!
and theres only like 2 tables and chairs where she sits, and her friend who needs glasses so she sits up fropnt with her sits there :> hmm
 

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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by jiza101
ahha, i play indoor soccer every lunch so i dont think she can play :>
As for leaving class, wont it be a cold approach like i have NEVER spoken directly to her, i know her name from role calls and **** but thats it. When she walks in the room should i just say "sit her with me" im sure she would, ahha ,im scared she might not be able to see properly cause she sits up front, another girl i friends with has to sit up front so she can see but i doubt this new girl has problems. Yer more ideas please
Oh yer, by me asking her to sit next to me does that make me seem asif im interetes thus knowing i like her, alothough I WOULD NOT let her play me, or is letting her know i like her a good thing ?
I wouldn't really consider it to be a cold approach because its not like she's never seen you before or anything. You have a class with her. It's not like your some weirdo who she's never seen before in her life. She sees you every day.
 
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