"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Wierd Scenarios like this..

LegendBoy

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What happens when u want to get a number off some girl who is not highly regarded by other males as she falls into the category of "plays instruments" i find her goodish and i introduced myself and say hi bla bla occasionally.

THough im going to talk 2 her and **** but i honestly feel she might think im of "higher value" and if i ask for the number she might think im joking and some ****head type of guy, whenn im not a ****hheadd lolol. So how the hell do you act and **** so they or she dont think im ****ing around if yous feel me.

PEACE
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Phyzzle

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she falls into the category of "plays instruments"
Your situation reminds me of this one time at band camp . . .

Oh, just ask for the dam number. You already know eachother right?
 

LegendBoy

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Not really i just talked 2 her once and asked time name and told her my name. Now when ever i see her i say hi and she has a massive smile and says hello lol...

Prob is she probably thinks im a bit 2 good dunno y i feel that with this girl..
 

Rocko

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....think man... you said she feels as if you are a better, meaning you are like a god to her. Let her fantasy come true, let her fvck the god! Like Phyzzle said, go for her number man, then you can talk to her and show her you are down to Earth and ask her on a date
 

Ace of Flames

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LegendBoy said:
she might think im of "higher value"
Dude... that's what every DJ on this forum is looking for! You want her to think that. Go for it man! Basically, you can do no wrong.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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snbatman

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What everyone else is saying. Ask her out, get her number, whatever. Break the high school freaking mentality that says all "Band chicks" can't be hot. Don't be a sheep and do whatever you want to do. **** what your friends or the rest of the school will think.
 

LegendBoy

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Hey fellas i bump this topic cuz i cant be screwed starting another. With this girl i always say hello when i see her likewise, though prob is im not that i am over concentrating just i dont see her on her own to call her over to chat her friends are nerds and she might not what to act interested in front of them and make herself look lower if yous feel me.

So i am waiting for when i see her on her own, i finish school 4eva in like a bit over a month so if that situation does not arise then ill do it friends or not though i just want to play it right for the moment.

Another thing i have a friend who does music with her.. he has offered to talk about me or put in good word wateva. What cud i make him say in a way which would not seem set up. I think im very good looking, but i want him to find out what she thinks of that side of me as if they think im hot i can do the rest.

so thanks guys.
 
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Ok man, I used to be like you, so I know what kind of situation you're in.

get a freakin phone book! call her! chat with her. this should not be difficult, god what do you have to lose? the girl already thinks you're higher status, that is every guy's dream come true
 

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I can't even read posts that take time to translate. (I) Must be the retard.
 
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