"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wierd question...nintendo DS?

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so theres a lot of downtime in my student government. (sometimes up to 3 hours) and i really want to just bring my nintendo ds and play it in my cubicle. lol. i do have a car but theres only so many times you can leave campus or go home or wathever. And i dont feel like driving everyday.

Whats a good game to play thats not going to make me seem like a loser? i was thinking like mario64 or some sports game.

any ideas?
thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It doesn't really matter what you play.. you'll still look like a loser. But I mean if you want to play it go ahead, it won't effect you much. I play it sometimes. lol it's fun.
 

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lol nah i think i could pull it off without looking liek a tool. Im the athletic comissioner and im on the wrestling team.

pokemon is an idea except....i already beat it lol. thats the only game i currently have. that and brain age. maybe ill start playniug that.. but icant picture myself training my brain for 3 hours.
 

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THIS is what sosuave is all about. lol
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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use the 3 hours of downtime to sarge girls instead.

you might even get laid!!
 

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(JJ) said:
THIS is what sosuave is all about. lol

lol. definately. anyways, what i mean by downtime is like time when i have to be in the office but theres little to no other people there. i need something to do. come on fellas, i dont really wanna hear alternatives, just help me answer the question.
 

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venser said:
Whats a good game to play thats not going to make me seem like a loser? i was thinking like mario64 or some sports game.
LMAO! haha dude it doesn't really matter what game you're playing, but if you want you could play something interesting that alot of people know about (yes, like pokemon).. some girls might think it's cute that you're playing a pokemon game or something... but you better be talking if they ask you what you're playing, and you better not worry about what guys think of you lol..
 

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Dude girls love Pokemon.


...But serious, don't play it in public.


From my experiance most girls love the SNES, and they love mario. Like all of them for some freaky reason. Oodles of hot teenage girls obsessed with a middle aged itallian plumber that wears? Lol, but yeah, Mario should be fine I guess. Just as long as you don't feel insecure about doing it.
 

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You can play any game you want, just as long as you don't look insecure about it. I know some people who try to hide the fact they're playing video games in public and it makes them look pathetic. Just be laid back and nonchalant about it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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venser said:
so theres a lot of downtime in my student government. (sometimes up to 3 hours) and i really want to just bring my nintendo ds and play it in my cubicle. lol. i do have a car but theres only so many times you can leave campus or go home or wathever. And i dont feel like driving everyday.

Whats a good game to play thats not going to make me seem like a loser? i was thinking like mario64 or some sports game.

any ideas?
thanks.
stop caring what other people think of you. Play whatever you want....
 

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Even Pokemon? I really wouldn't reccomend Pokemon.


...Awesome game though :p
 

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just play whatever you want, I went to this thing last monthj and I was on my laptop a lot (mainly because I didnt have a cell phone at the time and I was trying to contact my friend) but ppl didnt know this, it seemed liek I was nerdign it on the laptop all day, still I got the chicks.
 

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lol i can't believe i'm actually replying to this...

get final fantasy tactics advance or wait to get final fantasy tactics advance 2 when it comes out xD... best games for nintendo ds by far!
 

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Beat Agents Elite (or something along that line) is a game that can actually benefit you in a way if you're with a girl. It's kind of like DDR on DS, and it's incredibly addictive. It's one of those games where if you play a minute of it, you don't want to stop. So you could let her play for like a minute, take it away from her. She might refuse, then you can just take it out of her hands.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Madden '07 is where its at baby.

If you get a "socially acceptable" game, just make sure it's something everybody can relate to, like hockey or football, not zelda or something. Keep those in your closet.

But if nobody has said this yet... If you're choosing a game based on what other people like, then you have more pressing issues to deal with than playstation.
 

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lol madden 07 is for ds? nice. ive been playing mario64, its acuytally pretty sweet and people ask me all the time what im playing and it ends up being almost like a peacock item. (my ds is pink too...i bought it used so yeah)
 
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Pokemon all the way man. Pickachu is a pu$$ymonster. You better belive. Someone stick this theard in the bible. It's genius.
 

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lol its kinda funny how the thread with the second highest amout of replies on the first page is about video games....
 

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I'd say mario kart, and just find some other guys/girls that want to play and you can wi-fi.
lol, I actually did this at lunch one day with a bunch of girls that had DSs. It was fun.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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