Ok so one of my plates,
Shes usually very accommodating, and understanding.
Ive been seeing her for about 2 weeks now after about 3 months on hold.
When we met up for dinner last week everything was great!
I still drip feed attention and nothing has changed.
day before yesterday we in bed and we were messin around (4play) and i was just saying stuff teasing her and she was giggling and doing stuff.
suddenly she turns around and ignores me. like nothing said, over a matter of 30 seconds she went from giggling to actually ignoring me.
so i asked her if everything was ok, she gave the typical "yup"
obviously my blood was not in my head, she had just given me good brain, so i asked her again like "whats wrong?"
she goes "i just dont know, i dont feel like talking or doing anything with you right now"
me: ummm ok..i dunno what i said or did but maybe d freaky brain u gave me messed up yo senses, but the next time u decide to have a mood swings mid-show give me a warning..."
she: yuh fine i will..
me: ok so this is messed up im heading home..later.
and left.
She called me 20 minutes later and apologized profusely.
She also asked me to promise her that i forgave her for how she acted.
I said yes ok i do.
she said "come back to my place."
i said No, im already doing something else and ill see her later on.
and kindly and gently said bye.
Day 2.
started off good at work.
I get a call half way through with:
Hey s3xy! how are you? hows you're day? etc etc can you please come over tonight and we can go watch a movie and dinner, all on me
Me: Ok ill call you back in a couple of hours and confirm k? i was supposed to be doing something else tonight ill let you know ASAP.
she: ok cool call me today k. bye
few hours later:
I Call her and confirm that i will be coming over to spend time with her.
through the usual talk of, hows your day etc etc. she gave me her plans and who she's hanging out with and what she's doing and in the interest of talking i showed interest in her plans for the day i.e, "oh ok, you're seeing her today and doing that? cool, sounds fun."
then we said bye with time and place to meet up.
I get there and she meets me there, all is good.
couple of hours through chilling we were about to go to the movie, and she came out dressed beautiful. I commented on it.
And she said something like, yeh im going with you so noone else can look at me huh?
I was like : They can look but they know ur coming back home with me
and smiled.
she got MAD at that.gave me the cold shoulder.
So i stopped dead in my tracks and straight up asked her WTF is going on?
She goes:
I dunno, i just get mad at everything you are saying. I dunno why.
I feel suffocated.
I feel like you just want me to all to yourself.
Everything you say is getting me mad.
You ask me for my plans today, like you are suspicious that im doing something with other people.
so i said
Well suffocated? thats funny coz YOU Called me today, YOU text me today and YOU asked me to come over and set this date up. Interesting, and the whole thing about you assuming im being suspicious and asking about your plans for the day? maybe if you see it as just a conversation and not suspicious BS, dont assume that we are something we are not, i dont care who you hang out with and who you do what through your day with.
the more you disrespect me and throw attitude my way, you're going to have one LESS thing to plan in your day.bye.
and left.
she texts me at 4 am this morning saying "i miss you, plz call me"
i didnt text back.
and this morning i get another text like everything is all good with:
Hey sweetheart how is your day?
WTF IS THIS ALL ABOUT?
im focussing on other women right now and put this one on the backburner, i dont want to throw her off the cook top coz she's good in the sac and spends alota cash on me.
WHAT IS GOING ON?!!
ive cut my attention that i was giving her. that should fix it right?
Wut the fuk wud make a normal chic suddenly say you suffocate her?
just to clear stuff up:
NO i did NOT go AFC on her, she is NOT my oneitis, i DO NOT give her more than one call every 2 or 3 days. and here is most interesting bit.
I ONLY call her when SHE says PLZ CALL ME.
Shes usually very accommodating, and understanding.
Ive been seeing her for about 2 weeks now after about 3 months on hold.
When we met up for dinner last week everything was great!
I still drip feed attention and nothing has changed.
day before yesterday we in bed and we were messin around (4play) and i was just saying stuff teasing her and she was giggling and doing stuff.
suddenly she turns around and ignores me. like nothing said, over a matter of 30 seconds she went from giggling to actually ignoring me.
so i asked her if everything was ok, she gave the typical "yup"
obviously my blood was not in my head, she had just given me good brain, so i asked her again like "whats wrong?"
she goes "i just dont know, i dont feel like talking or doing anything with you right now"
me: ummm ok..i dunno what i said or did but maybe d freaky brain u gave me messed up yo senses, but the next time u decide to have a mood swings mid-show give me a warning..."
she: yuh fine i will..
me: ok so this is messed up im heading home..later.
and left.
She called me 20 minutes later and apologized profusely.
She also asked me to promise her that i forgave her for how she acted.
I said yes ok i do.
she said "come back to my place."
i said No, im already doing something else and ill see her later on.
and kindly and gently said bye.
Day 2.
started off good at work.
I get a call half way through with:
Hey s3xy! how are you? hows you're day? etc etc can you please come over tonight and we can go watch a movie and dinner, all on me
Me: Ok ill call you back in a couple of hours and confirm k? i was supposed to be doing something else tonight ill let you know ASAP.
she: ok cool call me today k. bye
few hours later:
I Call her and confirm that i will be coming over to spend time with her.
through the usual talk of, hows your day etc etc. she gave me her plans and who she's hanging out with and what she's doing and in the interest of talking i showed interest in her plans for the day i.e, "oh ok, you're seeing her today and doing that? cool, sounds fun."
then we said bye with time and place to meet up.
I get there and she meets me there, all is good.
couple of hours through chilling we were about to go to the movie, and she came out dressed beautiful. I commented on it.
And she said something like, yeh im going with you so noone else can look at me huh?
I was like : They can look but they know ur coming back home with me
and smiled. she got MAD at that.gave me the cold shoulder.
So i stopped dead in my tracks and straight up asked her WTF is going on?
She goes:
I dunno, i just get mad at everything you are saying. I dunno why.
I feel suffocated.
I feel like you just want me to all to yourself.
Everything you say is getting me mad.
You ask me for my plans today, like you are suspicious that im doing something with other people.
so i said
Well suffocated? thats funny coz YOU Called me today, YOU text me today and YOU asked me to come over and set this date up. Interesting, and the whole thing about you assuming im being suspicious and asking about your plans for the day? maybe if you see it as just a conversation and not suspicious BS, dont assume that we are something we are not, i dont care who you hang out with and who you do what through your day with.
the more you disrespect me and throw attitude my way, you're going to have one LESS thing to plan in your day.bye.
and left.
she texts me at 4 am this morning saying "i miss you, plz call me"
i didnt text back.
and this morning i get another text like everything is all good with:
Hey sweetheart how is your day?
WTF IS THIS ALL ABOUT?
im focussing on other women right now and put this one on the backburner, i dont want to throw her off the cook top coz she's good in the sac and spends alota cash on me.
WHAT IS GOING ON?!!
ive cut my attention that i was giving her. that should fix it right?
Wut the fuk wud make a normal chic suddenly say you suffocate her?
just to clear stuff up:
NO i did NOT go AFC on her, she is NOT my oneitis, i DO NOT give her more than one call every 2 or 3 days. and here is most interesting bit.
I ONLY call her when SHE says PLZ CALL ME.