"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wierd marks on chest, permanent??

DX_Flyer

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Im 17. I started working out since I was 16, and I got these scars while I was working out. I'm thinking its workout related. Not too sure about the stomach area one.

Ive been working out since august, and my partner got a demanding job, so my workouts have been halted. Recently, he got promoted and got a couple extra days off, so we plan to start tomorrow.

THE MARKS RANDOMLY APPEARED, IT WASN'T A CUT OR A SCRATCH, AND DOESNT HURT A BIT. JUST THE APPEARANCE.

Any idea what it is and how do i get rid of it? Heading to the beach soon.

scar1

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TurboLover

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Not sure about the ones on your stomach, but I get marks (just like yours) on my shoulders when I use heavy weight on them for standing calve raises. They go away.
 

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look like stretch marks to me.
 

Reto

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Yeah, Looks like stretch marks...

I think they'll fade, ut you'll still be able to see them...
 

Nightwing

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You just have stretch marks. They'll fade in time, but as the other guys here said, you'll still be able to see them. It's nothing to worry about--when you work out and your muscles grow too fast for your skin to catch up, stretch marks appear.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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