"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wierd look into the female mind

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Tonight I was conversing with some of my new lady friends that are in college and they started ragging on me because I haven't even thought about who I was going to take to prom(in april or may, I'm bot sure.) They insisted that I have to find myself a date THIS WEEK because it will make it so much easier on my date. I understand that asking now would certainly make it easier for the girl but it seems so far away and if something would happen in the next three months before the dance it would be wierd to say the least plus it seems rather desperate. I'm still thinking that a month before hand is plenty of time and it gives me a better chance of finding someone worthy of me. I just wanted to post this to see your reactions. Later.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lady friends? Start becoming a DJ and stop being a tool.
 
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thanks for calling me a tool even though you know nothing about me jackass. i call them lady friends because they came down from college with my friend and i have no interest in them whatsoever and lady friends is much shorter to type than "these girls i met over the weekend that were visiting from college with my friend." so now that i'm done explaining myself feel free to **** off.
 
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thanks for calling me a tool even though you know nothing about me jackass. i call them lady friends because they came down from college with my friend and i have no interest in them whatsoever and lady friends is much shorter to type than "these girls i met over the weekend that were visiting from college with my friend." so now that i'm done explaining myself feel free to **** off.
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LOL this cracks me up LOL again :D :D
 
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