"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wierd kiss close last night

wcknightjr

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alright i went out with this chick I've known for like 11 years, but we've only really been aquantinces, she made it pretty clear she liked me before last night, so I take her to see the grudge, and she spends the entire movie cuddled in my lap (some great kino), and i would give her the occassional kiss on the shoulder, cheek. So after the movie I take her home and we talk for like 45min outside her house in my car, then she gives me the breath mint, so I took that as strong enough of a hint she wanted a kiss, then she innocently asked me if I would "hypothetically" be able to spend the night at a dorm (she lives in one like 20 min away but was visiting for the weekend). So yeah, and before she gets out I look in her eyes and go for the kiss. I was kinda expecting her to move in too, but she stayed still, but i pushed on.

After like five lips-parted pecks (her lips were movin too) i back up a bit and she's like "happy thanksgiving" and goes in to her house. It might be nothing, but she seemed a like she would be a little more into it based off her prior actions, my vibe was just that she wasn't too excited about it. and don't worry, she's been with guys before. anyways, anyone have that kind of experience?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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CoRVeTTe6699

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everybody has their weird moments dont worry about it..

just kiss her .. its supposed to be fun... over analyzing ruins the whole thing...

my theory on french kissing girls..
if you dont do it the first night > you shoulda done it when u said goodbye, but if u didnt.. then OK... whatever

if you dont do it the 2nd night > your fukked.. the girl is gonna be insulted and think u like her as a friend...


and if ur talking about dorms , u must be in college.. post in the duan juan forum....
 

Jerky Boi

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Pecks aren't bad. If she had no interest in you, she wouldn't have kissed you at all. Save the french kiss for the next date.
 

wcknightjr

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haha funny you should mention that. On the next date (saturday), we were havin a great time, I made her laugh the whole time after the movie, we were fightin a little over this mp3 player i got (some good kino), but then when she left, i asked, well don't i get a kiss? and she said i already got one on thursday! so I told her jokingly "fine" and she acted all shocked, even tho it didn't make a difference. so i dunno. This makes it even stranger. Has good time, small kiss, has good time again, no kiss. Bah!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Hanz

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What the hell dude, you TAKE the kiss the first time and you wimp out the second time. Grow some balls, if she wants you to kiss her then you are fine, if she doesn't then you should move on anyway. Don't be an afc.

Also, seriously; there are some kiss tests if you hesitate. David D has a fairly kosher method.
 
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