"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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wierd issue...need help with gurl

inlikapimp

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okay..ill try to explain this...ima new member but i really need help with this gurl because i dont understand her...

ok..one day like a month ago..i was in lunch at school..and these kids were askin sum random gurl to go out with them...as a joke...well she just smiled..and i tried it figuring i had betta game..so i ask her..and she says she barely knows me..so from there we started talkin..i got her number...but since she recently moved...she doesnt have a house phone...well she is 18 and i just turned 16...and she told me and her friend that she doesnt care about the age at all....okay...so we been goin pretty fast for like the next 3 weeks...she told me she loves me...i told her i love her...we share the same common interests..and it was all good...she even gave me rides home..then one day...she says that she "likes me alot..but shes still in love with her ex boyfriend"...so im like woah..then another week passes by..and it appears that she lost aLOT of interest....and i ask her if she likes me..and she says yeah....another week passes by..and she tells me that she doesnt want a boyfriend at all....and she makes up excuses when i ask her for a ride..she hasnt given me a ride home in about a week or two...and lately she tells me im just a friend...she said she wants doesnt want a boyfriend because she doesnt wanna worry in school about if someone is mad at her...now...i think thats b.s....and her ex boyfriend lives in p.a. cause she moved from there..shes a senior now..okay..theres two months remaining..and im hooked on this gurl...and i got no idea wut to do...i like her like crazy..and its like she always makes up excuses not to be with me or be seen with me..she says im just a friend..wut do i do or act like to get her back....thanks alot..*one*
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Attila the Hun

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Even I know this..

Dump her, you'll be happier in the end. The ***** is stringing you along.
 

blienk

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Uh, what kind of advice are you looking for here? This girl is a *****. You can't get her back, and I have no idea why you'd want her back. Do you enjoy dealing with bull****?

Read the bible, cause you need the help. Then start looking for other women.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Attila the Hun

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Re: lol

Originally posted by inlikapimp
anyone else lol

Eh what's so funny mate? You should learn to appreciate even the little advice you get, or in the future you won't get any. :cool:
 

inlikapimp

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aiight..then....i told her that i dont like her anymore...seemed mad but i dont give a ****kkk son..lol thanks for the replies
 

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3 weeks+ i love you= problems. THis girl doesnt know whats going on in her tiny little head. Get away and youll see your stress level go down.
 

RaMar

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that was pretty inappropriate laughing at attila's advice like that seeing as how he's right.

Move on man. oakraiders is right "I love you" after 3 weeks is problems. This girl either doesn't want to have a boyfriend or doesn't want to date you. Sorry.
 

UniqueSoul

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Yup, she pretty messed you up. Getting tha **** away is the best choice, cos it's not that if you want to forget her or not, BUT YOU DEFINETELY NEED your feelings to start cooling. Cos you're not getting anywhere and exposing yaself to even more pain is not worth it. Pleasant memories are awfully nice, but the reality suggests that you should find someone who would really wanr to help you overcome this uncontrollable emotional flood in your soul.
I'm down in the same mess now. She's my classmate, whatever about that, but that acting of her and her friends makes me sick. Especially when you bear in mind the personalities of those three playaz.
Heal your wounds, don't let 'em bring you down forever. Well, unless your a poet.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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