Wierd Behaviour....

[beginnerDJ]

Its 2 days after our second date and I try to call her at night about 10, this is the time I'd usually be able to reach her.

Nobody picks up the phone. I don't call again and don't leave a message. Next day, I try again and the same thing happens, this time I leave an sms message. She'd know I called cuz her phone has Caller ID.

Later in the night, see her online in ICQ, send her a quick Hi but she goes offline without replying.

so its the end of the night now and I've received 0 responses after 2 calls, an SMS and an ICQ message over 2 days. This is wierd to me as the last date we had was really great and we hit it off well.

I've blown it before at this kind of doubtful stage, so I'm just wondering, whether I should just lay back until next week before trying again, thanks guys!

 

[Chewy Bagel]

Isn't her behavior telling you something? Did she not notice you online? Did her telephone break too?

She's trying to avoid you, bro. I'm sorry to be the one to tell you. She's not interested. If she was interested, then don't you think that you'd easily be able to talk directly with her?

CB

 

[echo1212]

Yeah.. shes talking to you by her silence. Its sucks. We've all been there, whether we had it done to us or we did it to someone. But the truth is, she just doesn't have the guts to say shes not interested directly, so shes taking the easy way out. Dont give her a second thought..she's gone.

 

[beginnerDJ]

I do realize that, I'm just wondering what could be the cause as I've definitely not done anything wrong. We had a great time the 2 times we were out and I could definitely sense the interest level going up.

Other than that, I've not really contacted her much so it cant be a case of being too available.

 

[echo1212]

Sometimes..their just not interested. No reasons, no conspiracies..shes just not attracted enough. Don't try and overanalyze this. Its not worth it.

 

[Chewy Bagel]

Doing everything right does not guarantee success with women. You can analyze it over and over replaying it in your head, but that won't get you anywhere. As long as you keep yourside of the sidewalk clean, then you have nothing to worry about.

 

[beginnerDJ]

I understand.....its a crying shame cuz I thought we were really compatible.

I really don't feel like giving up though, I'm not going to let these 2 days affect me. Just a last attempt to reverse the situation?

 

[beginnerDJ]

All does not seem lost yet....

A new development...this morning while at work, i check my ICQ, she's online. She messages me soon after, apologizing for not calling me back, but saying that she's busy these few days (i left a SMS message for her about catching a movie), and probably another time or next week would be better.

By this point I dont really care so i just reply with a " we see how it goes then", and nothing else after.

So, is it still recoverable? and what would be a good way to do it?

It seems perpetually so that she's always busy on the weekends, the 2 times we went out were all on weekdays.

Guys?