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Don Juan
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So these 2 years what you have been doing?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Wicked awful experience. Worried it's gonna happen again
- Thread starter rickyo
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Vice
Master Don Juan
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How often do you masturbate and how often do you look at porn? The answer to this question has an indirect tie to what you're experiencing.rickyo said:
More than likely you put off weird vibes that creeped out the girl at the party, and the next day jealous boyfriend came along and scared you off. This being your first approach, let me tell you that this RARELY ever happens.
If you want to build up some confidence, you need to get back out there and start socializing. Start small. Talk to everyone you see; the guy at the store, the old lady in line, that sort of thing.
Alex DeLarge
Master Don Juan
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Maybe this chick was a man-hating lesbian lol. There's lots of those in college.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.