"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why?

Cherry

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Why do you get so hung up on sex and staying on top. Why cant you ever just be real friends?

I know I have made mstakes and been stupid but now even the older man who I thought was going to protect me, wants me. He said that real men dont choose women as friends, especially not pretty ones. So now I have to be hurt again because I relied on his friendship, now its gone. He promised he would never hurt me, but he has.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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eoin2000

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As Chris Rock once put it..."guys dont have women that are friends, just women that they havent fcuked yet...".

This is mostly true. Its a direct consequence of having balls. Get over it.
 

PRMoon

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Originally posted by eoin2000
As Chris Rock once put it..."guys dont have women that are friends, just women that they havent fcuked yet...".

This is mostly true. Its a direct consequence of having balls. Get over it.
Ah chris rock, his wisdom is lost on so many.
 

tmpgstx

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Cherry, are you even remotely attracted to this guy in a romantic sense? Isn't a good friendship a precursor for some girls before getting serious with a guy they really like?

What do you mean 'protect' you?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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