"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why do you get so hung up on sex and staying on top. Why cant you ever just be real friends?

I know I have made mstakes and been stupid but now even the older man who I thought was going to protect me, wants me. He said that real men dont choose women as friends, especially not pretty ones. So now I have to be hurt again because I relied on his friendship, now its gone. He promised he would never hurt me, but he has.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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As Chris Rock once put it..."guys dont have women that are friends, just women that they havent fcuked yet...".

This is mostly true. Its a direct consequence of having balls. Get over it.
 
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Originally posted by eoin2000
As Chris Rock once put it..."guys dont have women that are friends, just women that they havent fcuked yet...".

This is mostly true. Its a direct consequence of having balls. Get over it.
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Ah chris rock, his wisdom is lost on so many.
 
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Cherry, are you even remotely attracted to this guy in a romantic sense? Isn't a good friendship a precursor for some girls before getting serious with a guy they really like?

What do you mean 'protect' you?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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