why?

[check_mate_kid_uk]

i heared that insecure unconfident people often have a grudge against the popular people the jocks and players etc.. i used to be insecure, i was jelous of the popular people but did not have a grudge against them, now i am on the right side of the line, i am more popular, i seem to look up to the popular guys and the ones who look better and there for could be playets i guess, and i seem to see the less atractive and less popular people as below me, not as equals, i do not mind tlaking to them as some of them are nice but i do not like girls seeing me with them.

do any of you have any ideas why i am thinking like this? i do not know why, the only thing i can think of is because i used to be unpopular and hated it and am looking up to more popular people trying to become like them

 

[jonny football hero]

Whats your problem?

I woulddn't go too deep into self analysis. Just as my grandad used to say "shut up and get on with it"

 

[Dee-Zy]

Because you are in high school.

That's High School dynamics.

 

[DJBen]

Never try to be like someone else.

Be your own man. You should always have people hating you. It's a sign of you doing things correctly.

EDIT: you're sixth form. things are different now. I know college was a breed apart from school, and now uni is the same again. It's all just progressions.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

Originally posted by DJBen
Never try to be like someone else.

Be your own man. You should always have people hating you. It's a sign of you doing things correctly.

wow really because i always seem to pick up a couple of people who hate me for no reason, after being at the same school for a while, i moved school this year so right now no 1 hates me.

I am 'my own man' but still look up to certain other people, not trying to be like them but get the same respect from others as they get etc..