“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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lovejones

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I work with this hunny who flirts with me whenever somebody is around. Like she has grabbed my coxk sits in my lap, Kinos me, touched my butt all these things she does whenever somebody else is around but whenever it is just me and her she does not do these things she just sits there and talks to me. Why would she do these things only in front of people?
 

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why not?

she likes the attention u give her, so she encourages herslef to flirt with you..the problem is, she only wants to do this in circumstances where she isnt threatened aka you making a move on her..

she knows if ahe encourages you when u 2 are alone, she wont have control over the situation anymore..

stopp being a nerd and make moves on her regardless, but dont always let her tease you.
 

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she knows if ahe encourages you when u 2 are alone, she wont have control over the situation anymore..
Is this bad then that she does it this way? Does she not want me to make a move?
 

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Originally posted by lovejones
I work with this hunny who flirts with me whenever somebody is around. Like she has grabbed my coxk sits in my lap, Kinos me, touched my butt all these things she does whenever somebody else is around but whenever it is just me and her she does not do these things she just sits there and talks to me. Why would she do these things only in front of people?
Tell her that unless she intends to follow through with her flirting, that you will have her up for harrassment and that you have witnesses. Be C+F, see what she does.
 

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You could try something along the lines of "Don't start something you can't stop" or words to that effect. Alternately, and less DJ (but more pointed)- SH!T or get off the pot!

Just my two cents

Cyrano
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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