"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bonafide

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close thread, guys wanna be ass wholes and hurt my feelings :(
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She's obviously not interested in you or that other kid.

but seriously, **** man who cares? it doesnt mean anything. how would we know what she was thinking? you know better, did she seem like you were wasting her time or something or is that just what she does?
 
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Probably means she's not interested. In short: STOP OVER-ANALYZING!!! Who gives a **** what people thinK? (Lol I'm being a little hypocritical there, but w/e, trying to inspire)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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C'mon man , analyzing if she extended her arm fully ?

This only screws you up man . Stop analyzing . Let the life go . Take it easy . I was super analyzer of every situation and all that did is fvck up my interactions.

Later ill put here some links that will convince you not to analyze and will help you get over this bad habit . Cheers :cheer:
 
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