Why?

[gettingstronger]

Ok... heres the deal. **** tests, i pass them no problem.

Check this out. Ive been with my GF fo 1.5 yrs. Anyway, i was telling her about a fight i cooled down with some pro boxer and shyt. He was about to fight my friends and beat them up when i squared up to him face to face and asked him whats up like a man.

He backed off and shyt and told me that my friends intimidate his gfs brother. I settled it like a man and he hugged me and all was cool. We became friends.

I told my GF about the story and showed her a picture of the dude and she immediatly said "wow hes cute, hook me up" . OBVIOUS FRICKING SHYT TEST. Now i didnt emotionally react at the time, i just ignored it and carried on tellin the story to her. She didnt say anything . SHYT TEST PASSED.

Now ive no problem with tests, she tests me a couple of times and i make her smile when i show her confidence or the fact that there is a lack of emotional reaction from me when she tests me ( which is good ).

What is p1ssing me off is that i find it VERY DISRESPECTFUL for her to say something like that. I DO NOT LIKE IT. I do not do any thing like that to her. Her friends are hot but i dont tell her they are cos as much as she puts up a front of being strong, she is weak inside and it wud destroy her if i told her that some of her friends are hot.

WHY do they do this? I felt like saying:

"shut the feck up, keep those thoughts to ur self cos i dont giv a shyt"

why must I tip toe around women?

insecurity in me? nahhh, i dont think so. Im secure in my self. Her calling him cute is disrespectful in my world, i dont like it.

Why do i feel bad?
Why does she do these stupid things?

 

[penkitten]

i think she might have meant it as a joke, but it was not a tasteful one or a funny one. it was disrespectful as all get out.

 

[Heart Break Kid]

If you find that disrespectful then just walk away from her. Personally I don't see what the problem is, she's been with your for awhile so she obivously likes you. Just laugh and ask her what you get out of it, mention a hot friend of hers in a joking way and she'll punch you back playfully. You've got to relax, she's just being playful but as I said before if you don't like it warn her and then next time just walk out.

 

[Zeus]

women are sometimes idiots, they say stupid ass things that get yours blood pumping, i know it myself cause iam together with my girl and i hear comments like that, yes its all jokes and she means no harm, but still i just want to say to her shut the **** up with **** like that.