"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why you should never trust a woman. Or anyone else for that matter.

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So. Should you trust a woman?

To answer this first imagine the person or thing you most care about and cannot imagine living without.

Imagine that person or thing lying before a steamroller piloted by me. Should you ever err or fall victim to your desires such as infidelity etc I should proceed to steamroller that person or thing that you prize so highly.

Now answer this question:

Can you guarantee for the rest of your life that you would not err or do no wrong or become temporary victim to your desires knowing that should you fail to live up to your word your loved one/thing would be flattened into oblivion by yours truly?

If your answer was the same as mine then you would then understand that if we cannot even trust ourselves then how could we possibly trust another?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think trust in a man-woman relationship has a lot to do with good sex, if you can make a woman wet, if you f8ck her brains out and the sex attraction/lust level is over 9000 then the chance of her cheating will be minimized. Of course other factors can make her cheat aswel but sex is the most important factor. The most wifes that cheat have lame sex with their man and search for new guys to fullfill their needs
 

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Motherly love = unconditional (for most).

All other love = conditional (for all).
 

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TheGambino said:
I love my mom, she always puts me on number 1 and I put her on number 1. I would ruin my whole life to safe her from harm, 100% I wouldnt care about my life and im 100% sure it's the same for her.

I trust her for the full 100000%. But yea I can't use my mother son relationship in this context.
Sure you can. So can you guarantee for the rest of your life that you will not fall victim to your desires in a way that might hurt another knowing that if you do not live up to your word your mother will be killed? Do you make this guarantee?
 

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sylvester the cat said:
Sure you can. So can you guarantee for the rest of your life that you will not fall victim to your desires in a way that might hurt another knowing that if you do not live up to your word your mother will be killed? Do you make this guarantee?
Uhm in the 'killing scenario' unconditonally yes

I would do anything to protect her
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TheGambino said:
Uhm in the 'killing scenario' unconditonally yes

I would do anything to protect her
Just to be clear if you make no guarantee your mother will be safe and no harm will come to her no matter what you do but if you do make that guarantee and you do not live up to your guarantee your mother will be killed. You still make that guarantee?
 

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Well as you say it the first option is logically the best one because I wouldn't have to make a guarantee and she still be safe?
Basically ill do what's best for her safety.

We don't live in a violent or unsafe city or country, I thank God for that.

If we would live in Syria or some other warzone I would 100% sure make that guarantee so that we both can live safe ill live up to it and put her on number 1 above anyone else.

Im not violent or agressive at all. If I catch someone doing something bad to my dear mother lmfao..... that's the worst thing you can do to me ill turn into a maniac

but let's keep it positive lol I don;t want to think about those scenarios

how about you?
 

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yes i can guarantee that if i knew a loved one would die due to me cheating then i would 100% not cheat.
 

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Comatozed said:
yes i can guarantee that if i knew a loved one would die due to me cheating then i would 100% not cheat.
If you knew a loved one's life were at stake wouldn't you be better off not making that guarantee?

By making that guarantee you put your loved one's life at risk.
What if during your lifetime you discovered your loved one cheated on you? Would you be so sure of that guarantee? My point being circumstances change. We can never make any such guarantee.
 
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