woah!!! this isnt entirely true i have a female friend younger who only tells the truth. i ask her advice a lot. she tells me to focus on myself an kids. not the female. she is really wise. my mom is another one she says im to nice.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Why you should NEVER take chicks "advice"
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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This is like asking Pokemon how to catch them! :crackup:
Doing so labels you as weak, undesirable, and unattractive. So just google it. Men MIGHT give you sane advice, but the best advice I've heard about attracting women is have lots of muscles and money. I've covered this in my thread with 29 more common ass cases like this one.
Case closed.
Doing so labels you as weak, undesirable, and unattractive. So just google it. Men MIGHT give you sane advice, but the best advice I've heard about attracting women is have lots of muscles and money. I've covered this in my thread with 29 more common ass cases like this one.
Case closed.
THIS. Also, what Mike said.bigneil said:
This ties into the hater discussion we had a few weeks back. People love to keep failures around, and will ensure that you WILL fail, simply so they can feel better about themselves. Some are also extremely arrogant and selfish, and believe that their feelings and opinions apply to everyone. If they dont like you - no one ever will. And theyll remind you of this over and over.
These also tend to be the fake follower types. The popular, snobby, status, high class types that every dumbass wants, and accepts false friendships from.
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^ so true true...and that is the Majority...people WANT you to fail, and I find myself hoping others near me don't succeed as well Especially in an endeavor that I'm committing my own self to. I mean, I devote a lot of time to something and then here comes a friend of mine (who I KNOW is Very smart mechanically with cars and all manner of sh!t), so he comes along, briefly, and succeeds in one week what it took a whole month for me to accomplish. I find myself hoping that he doesn't succeed cause I know he knows I've been at this for awhile and it makes me look bad, in addition to all my other comrades who know that I've been SPENDING a lot of my time trying to accomplish something.
Anyway, since the OP is a POF expert, I'll relate that to his advice, not to take advice from females. A lot of these females say not to just say "Hi" in your initial message to her, or you will be ignored blah blah. So I say "hi" and sure enough, she's not ignoring me cause she's the one who first viewed my profile and thinks I'm hot, so I'm the exception now. She wants to get fvcked period end of story.
Anyway, since the OP is a POF expert, I'll relate that to his advice, not to take advice from females. A lot of these females say not to just say "Hi" in your initial message to her, or you will be ignored blah blah. So I say "hi" and sure enough, she's not ignoring me cause she's the one who first viewed my profile and thinks I'm hot, so I'm the exception now. She wants to get fvcked period end of story.
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Show up naked, bring beer.NorwegianDJ said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Haha, I learned a long time ago that if you give a woman what she says she wants she'll hate you for it.
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I think people are being a little close-minded here...
Asking a girl you're NOT interested in for advice on other girls is a very good way to start building a friendship with her. Having female friends is almost always a good thing.
Asking a girl you're NOT interested in for advice on other girls is a very good way to start building a friendship with her. Having female friends is almost always a good thing.
(b1tch slap).sageproduct said:
While a man should rarely ASK advice from women, if she wants to OFFER advice he should certainly listen to what she has to say. Then it's up to him to take the advice or not.
For example: if she says "You'd look really good if you had bigger shoulders" she's probably right, but you should never ask "Are my shoulders big enough?".
Get your validation from other women.
Also, the only time a man can really trust a woman is immediately after they've had sex. Sometimes they confess things in that state that are key. I had one girl years ago explain that the reason she couldn't have an orgasm (ever) is because her father made her have one as a child and it made her feel guilty! That explained what many women probably could never admit.
If she didn't have sex you can't trust what she had to say because it was probably just an excuse not to have sex (the real reason being low attraction, at least at that moment).
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NEVER ever EVER take stupid HOE advice Never! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U6piGNG2bTA&feature=g-u-u
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Best advice i ever got from a woman was my mom (she offered it to me). I was in a relationship some years ago that was bad for me, and I knew it, but wouldn't cut ties. She told me if its about what's between her legs, every woman has that, and I should just go elsewhere.
Best advice from her.. ever!
Best advice from her.. ever!