woah!!! this isnt entirely true i have a female friend younger who only tells the truth. i ask her advice a lot. she tells me to focus on myself an kids. not the female. she is really wise. my mom is another one she says im to nice.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Why you should NEVER take chicks "advice"
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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This is like asking Pokemon how to catch them! :crackup:
Doing so labels you as weak, undesirable, and unattractive. So just google it. Men MIGHT give you sane advice, but the best advice I've heard about attracting women is have lots of muscles and money. I've covered this in my thread with 29 more common ass cases like this one.
Case closed.
Doing so labels you as weak, undesirable, and unattractive. So just google it. Men MIGHT give you sane advice, but the best advice I've heard about attracting women is have lots of muscles and money. I've covered this in my thread with 29 more common ass cases like this one.
Case closed.
THIS. Also, what Mike said.bigneil said:
This ties into the hater discussion we had a few weeks back. People love to keep failures around, and will ensure that you WILL fail, simply so they can feel better about themselves. Some are also extremely arrogant and selfish, and believe that their feelings and opinions apply to everyone. If they dont like you - no one ever will. And theyll remind you of this over and over.
These also tend to be the fake follower types. The popular, snobby, status, high class types that every dumbass wants, and accepts false friendships from.
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^ so true true...and that is the Majority...people WANT you to fail, and I find myself hoping others near me don't succeed as well Especially in an endeavor that I'm committing my own self to. I mean, I devote a lot of time to something and then here comes a friend of mine (who I KNOW is Very smart mechanically with cars and all manner of sh!t), so he comes along, briefly, and succeeds in one week what it took a whole month for me to accomplish. I find myself hoping that he doesn't succeed cause I know he knows I've been at this for awhile and it makes me look bad, in addition to all my other comrades who know that I've been SPENDING a lot of my time trying to accomplish something.
Anyway, since the OP is a POF expert, I'll relate that to his advice, not to take advice from females. A lot of these females say not to just say "Hi" in your initial message to her, or you will be ignored blah blah. So I say "hi" and sure enough, she's not ignoring me cause she's the one who first viewed my profile and thinks I'm hot, so I'm the exception now. She wants to get fvcked period end of story.
Anyway, since the OP is a POF expert, I'll relate that to his advice, not to take advice from females. A lot of these females say not to just say "Hi" in your initial message to her, or you will be ignored blah blah. So I say "hi" and sure enough, she's not ignoring me cause she's the one who first viewed my profile and thinks I'm hot, so I'm the exception now. She wants to get fvcked period end of story.
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Show up naked, bring beer.NorwegianDJ said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Haha, I learned a long time ago that if you give a woman what she says she wants she'll hate you for it.
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I think people are being a little close-minded here...
Asking a girl you're NOT interested in for advice on other girls is a very good way to start building a friendship with her. Having female friends is almost always a good thing.
Asking a girl you're NOT interested in for advice on other girls is a very good way to start building a friendship with her. Having female friends is almost always a good thing.
(b1tch slap).sageproduct said:
While a man should rarely ASK advice from women, if she wants to OFFER advice he should certainly listen to what she has to say. Then it's up to him to take the advice or not.
For example: if she says "You'd look really good if you had bigger shoulders" she's probably right, but you should never ask "Are my shoulders big enough?".
Get your validation from other women.
Also, the only time a man can really trust a woman is immediately after they've had sex. Sometimes they confess things in that state that are key. I had one girl years ago explain that the reason she couldn't have an orgasm (ever) is because her father made her have one as a child and it made her feel guilty! That explained what many women probably could never admit.
If she didn't have sex you can't trust what she had to say because it was probably just an excuse not to have sex (the real reason being low attraction, at least at that moment).
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NEVER ever EVER take stupid HOE advice Never! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U6piGNG2bTA&feature=g-u-u
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Best advice i ever got from a woman was my mom (she offered it to me). I was in a relationship some years ago that was bad for me, and I knew it, but wouldn't cut ties. She told me if its about what's between her legs, every woman has that, and I should just go elsewhere.
Best advice from her.. ever!
Best advice from her.. ever!