I was reading something last night that I thought I would share with the rest of you on here. This is something that has probably been posted on here before in another form but I thought it was too good not to post it.
As I said last night I was reading a book titled, "Winning Every Day" by Lou Holtz. For those of you that don't know Holtz is the former head football coach at Notre Dame as well as several other schools. He was talking in one particular chapter about overcoming adversity. He told the story of when he had to suspend several key players prior to their appearance in the Orange Bowl and how many people figured they would get killed. They were actually 24 pt underdogs. Several days before the game he could tell his players didn't believe they could win, going through the motions in practice with no emotion. So he said he took them aside and told them he was tired of hearing all the reasons why they wouldn't win the game, he wanted the players give reasons why they would win. Slowly but surely the players began offering positve attributes of the team and why they could win the game. Sure enough when the game came, not only did they win, they killed their opponent 31-7.
So I give you this example to put into your own life. Many times we are guilty of telling ourselves why a certain girl wouldn't or shouldn't go out with us, I know I'm guilty of this from time to time. However, as we see from this story, maybe, just maybe if you keep telling yourself why girls should be falling all over themselves for the chance to be with you.
So I thought it would be a good idea to list something tat you feel makes you the type of man chicks should want to be with and I'll start:
I'm a funny guy, athletic and always willing to do something different
As I said last night I was reading a book titled, "Winning Every Day" by Lou Holtz. For those of you that don't know Holtz is the former head football coach at Notre Dame as well as several other schools. He was talking in one particular chapter about overcoming adversity. He told the story of when he had to suspend several key players prior to their appearance in the Orange Bowl and how many people figured they would get killed. They were actually 24 pt underdogs. Several days before the game he could tell his players didn't believe they could win, going through the motions in practice with no emotion. So he said he took them aside and told them he was tired of hearing all the reasons why they wouldn't win the game, he wanted the players give reasons why they would win. Slowly but surely the players began offering positve attributes of the team and why they could win the game. Sure enough when the game came, not only did they win, they killed their opponent 31-7.
So I give you this example to put into your own life. Many times we are guilty of telling ourselves why a certain girl wouldn't or shouldn't go out with us, I know I'm guilty of this from time to time. However, as we see from this story, maybe, just maybe if you keep telling yourself why girls should be falling all over themselves for the chance to be with you.
So I thought it would be a good idea to list something tat you feel makes you the type of man chicks should want to be with and I'll start:
I'm a funny guy, athletic and always willing to do something different
