"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why you have to be that good

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Although one may "romanticize" women as a whole, as hot and sexy. If you examine closely each girl you pass by, most of them are plain ugly. Yes, women as a whole are ugly, most of them anyway, no matter what age. Of course the same applies to men.

Why is this a problem? It is, because most men want very hot and sexy girls. 10's are almost inexistent, I would say perhaps 1 in 1000 is a 10, perhaps even less 1 in 100.000... For me, to give you an example of my standards, the girl (older one of course) from Avicii song "Don't wake me up", in the video is 8.5 or 9. You very rarely see girls like this.

But perhaps you are not very demanding, and you only need a 6.5 or 7. Beauty rates are not evenly distributed (I hate when numbers are put on this forum, but this is just to ilustrate), a 9 for instance is not hotter than 90% of women, since 10% of women are not 10's. A 9 may well be hotter than 98% of women.

So your 6.5 or 7 could perhaps be hotter than 80% of women. These girls are not gorgeous, but have a huge army of guys behind. Because although they are just cuties, they are very superior to the average girl. Many times one may be incredulous when these girls behave the way they do, we think they are not that hot, so they will not be that difficult. Wrong, what matters is their relative power/beauty to other women, and because they are superior to most of them, they are queens...

Game is a part of your arsenal, but to be truthful, most guys who are 23+ have acquired some game already. People are not idiots, we all have seen hotties getting picked by jerks, every guy knows that. There is no need for David D or even Mystery to tell us that, online game as come this far because in great part is a confirmation of what we already knew. I see lots off guys negging women every day, and they know what it's all about, women know... But in part game is what every lazy guy does, just read a book and your good to go, of course some practice is needed but you get the point...

I do think for instance that meditation and the ability to be in the zone, are much more powerful than standard game, high levels of focus give you an unshakable alpha attitude, you become super confident. Because you are in the zone, you don't have monkeys and disturbing thoughts that make you fearful or lacking confidence. Also you become quicker witted, and you can "game" them in a beautiful, and genius like form... Tyler of RSD also endorses this...

And gym, women love muscles. They just love them, but many times they still lie about it. But this is something most guys won´t be able to achieve because they are lazy.

Yes, even if you want only a 6 or 7, you will have to be very good for the reasons above.

An healthy body, and healthy mind... Greek tradition, do that and become a chick magnet.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I disagree. First of all I don't know where dudes get such high standards from. I see attractive chicks all the time. Most girls are plain ugly? The chick in that vid is very rare? I could go to the grocery store right now and see a good number of attractive chicks that look as good or better than her. As far as most dudes 23+ having game, it may just be my cynical attitude talking, but I think most dudes are idiots. You said it yourself that a 6.5 or 7 has a huge army of guys behind her. It doesn't take much to beat men who chase and pursue women.

Game may be becoming more popular but it isn't knowledge of game that's important, it's having the discipline to practice and apply it. I'd also say that game is more than just tactics and tricks such as negging, it's a state of being. Like you said about being in the zone, that's what true game is. Confidence is game, masculinity is game, not being afraid to be sexual is game, self esteem is game. The massive amount of men chasing after their ex is proof enough that most men don't truly have game. A confident, masculine, self assured man wouldn't chase after a chick who dumped him. All we have to do is become slightly better than average. Most people aren't interested in self improvement
 

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There is no such thing as a 10 point blank simple. Dudes can post as many pictures on here as they want. And generally most people are ugly I agree with you. My Scale goes 1-8.5 never seen anything more then that. And with social media and the internet you can see a wide variety of people you never seen before. Maybe someone can be a perfect ten with the total package including a cute face, banging body and great personality. But physically a 10 in just the face? Nah....life is not about perfection, never was.
 

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Well I seen the girl she is not a 8.5 or a 9. We all have different types and standards. She is cute though
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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JoeMarron said:
I disagree. First of all I don't know where dudes get such high standards from. I see attractive chicks all the time. Most girls are plain ugly? The chick in that vid is very rare? I could go to the grocery store right now and see a good number of attractive chicks that look as good or better than her. As far as most dudes 23+ having game, it may just be my cynical attitude talking, but I think most dudes are idiots. You said it yourself that a 6.5 or 7 has a huge army of guys behind her. It doesn't take much to beat men who chase and pursue women.

Game may be becoming more popular but it isn't knowledge of game that's important, it's having the discipline to practice and apply it. I'd also say that game is more than just tactics and tricks such as negging, it's a state of being. Like you said about being in the zone, that's what true game is. Confidence is game, masculinity is game, not being afraid to be sexual is game, self esteem is game. The massive amount of men chasing after their ex is proof enough that most men don't truly have game. A confident, masculine, self assured man wouldn't chase after a chick who dumped him. All we have to do is become slightly better than average. Most people aren't interested in self improvement
Co-signed.

How about instead of all this crap about a scale of 1-10....I introduce to you guys a new scale.....

Would you have sex with her or not. Thats it. If you would....you go talk to her. If you wouldnt...dont.
 

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I'm not that picky. I like chicks with big boobs and skinny bodies. Don't care at all about the face.

But I have fvucked fatties, uglies, and everything in between.

Don't make it too complicated. Guys are full of testosterone and want to fvuck, and most guys WILL fvuck 5's and 6's.

I will say that some of those 5's and 6's fvuck a hell of a lot better than the HB's.

i love people here, they are so picky and yet they are virgins/havent had a lot of action. "Oh i only want a 7 or 8" lol that numbering system is retarded.

Ill **** anything with legs, perks of being 21 with a whole meat slab of muscle and testosterone coursing through these veins :eek: :up:
 

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I have no intention of offending anyone. But if you have no standards (you are pretty much free to do what you like), of course this post was not intended for you. Also, if you need to resort to ugs it's because you probably can't get any better.

That's why you need something, to get the cutest girls (only a qualitative measurement from now on since some guys feel nerdy or offended by 1-10 scale;)).
 

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Espi said:
I like chicks with big boobs and skinny bodies. Don't care at all about the face.
I'm the opposite; the face is more important for me. The size of her boobs isn't important -- bigger is nice but it's much more important that they look good (e.g. shape, areola size) than how big they are -- provided she's not totally flat. Otherwise, her body isn't that important; while I'd love to bang a girl with a 0.6 waist-to-hip ratio and 32E bra size and whatever else, if she's got an ugly face then I probably won't be interested and if she's got a pretty face but average body then I probably will be interested.
 

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JdelaSilviera said:
I have no intention of offending anyone. But if you have no standards (you are pretty much free to do what you like), of course this post was not intended for you. Also, if you need to resort to ugs it's because you probably can't get any better.

That's why you need something, to get the cutest girls (only a qualitative measurement from now on since some guys feel nerdy or offended by 1-10 scale;)).

I'm not offended at all. I was just voicing my opinion. It's pretty obvious with the right mindset you can get anyone you want. Hell for fun sometimes I like banging uglier girls because they're more fun. Who gives a fuawk
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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JoeMarron said:
I disagree. First of all I don't know where dudes get such high standards from. I see attractive chicks all the time. Most girls are plain ugly? The chick in that vid is very rare? I could go to the grocery store right now and see a good number of attractive chicks that look as good or better than her. As far as most dudes 23+ having game, it may just be my cynical attitude talking, but I think most dudes are idiots. You said it yourself that a 6.5 or 7 has a huge army of guys behind her. It doesn't take much to beat men who chase and pursue women.

Game may be becoming more popular but it isn't knowledge of game that's important, it's having the discipline to practice and apply it. I'd also say that game is more than just tactics and tricks such as negging, it's a state of being. Like you said about being in the zone, that's what true game is. Confidence is game, masculinity is game, not being afraid to be sexual is game, self esteem is game. The massive amount of men chasing after their ex is proof enough that most men don't truly have game. A confident, masculine, self assured man wouldn't chase after a chick who dumped him. All we have to do is become slightly better than average. Most people aren't interested in self improvement
Totally agree with this.
 

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People have different standards and will be attracted to different qualities (physical and otherwise).
It's pointless debating what qualifies as an 'x' on a scale of 1-10.

More importantly it's irrelevant.
If you think everyone is an 8+ then you will be a very happy man. Who am I to say otherwise?
 

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I agree everyone has different taste and standards, but all the pictures of HB9s or HB8s tend to more HB5s and HB6s, that SOME of these guys be bragging about
 

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I agree everyone has different taste and standards, but all the pictures of HB9s or HB8s tend to more HB5s and HB6s, that SOME of these guys be bragging about

Yup pretty much . It's simple: people don't want to admit they're girl isn't supermodel like because of what they're peers will think of them.
 
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