Why you can't get hawtees before happiness

[everywomanshero]

Let's look at what goes on when a typical depressed man comes here: He says "If I just had a hawtee, then I'd finally be happy"

So he admits his life is total sh1t and without meaning. If that's the case, why would a hawtee want to be in it?

This is circularly defining happiness:
If I had a hawtee I'd be happy.
I can't get a hawtee because I am not happy.

Where is that ever going to go?

So the solution is to lay out the dream life first. You don't even need to achieve it to get the hawtees, but you just need to be working towards it. Have something in life to be passionate about and reap the benefits of improved happiness and vigor for life. When you do that, the hawtees will want to be a part of your life regardless of how much money, how tall, or any other crap guys spend time being depressed over for not perceiving themselves to have enough of.

 

[Tau]

If you're currently hopeless with women then getting some good success will make you a little happier. That's obvious. But most people get used to things very quickly. It's not long before you're taking your situation for granted and think you need *more* to be happier now. It never really ends. Human condition.

 

[Warboss Alex]

my missus = THE HAWTNESS
me = very happy indeed.

go make it happen.

 

[Docs]

Haha....I might be the first to suggest this.

Act like a normal person and let her see what you're made of?

Not like..
*grunt...cough...speaks in british accent*
"Ohh...my dearry, my name isss... Richar'r'd, what would yours be miss?"

You get the point...don't falsify yourself.