"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why you are the prize.

ThePrize

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Pardon my crappy grammar in my first post here.

My personal tip of value:

Don't just think you are the prize. You have to think why you are the prize. You can't be the prize if you simple are not one. I believe many people are the prize without fully believing it. That won't help you. I suggest you make a list about the things why you believe yourself or why you HAVE TO START BELIEVING you are the prize for any girl you meet. This is what I did and it helped me a lot:

Why I am the prize to be won. And am I not desperate for a girl.


-I have broken free from the drowning unawareness supported by today's society.

-I have put amazing effort in finding truth. That will lead me to a bright future.

-I have the capabilities of making my girl into a more aware and more happy person. It's only fair that my contribution is to be re payed for by setting high standard for myself.

- I deserve to have a girl that makes me truly happy.

-Most girls are merely ignorant society-drowned narrow-minded people.

-They should qualify for being my girl

-A wrong girl will affect my life in a way I do not want it to be affected.

-I find myself to belong to the top 1% of the population in regards to intelligence and awareness. Naturally my standards should be high as well as I will only maid with alpha girls.

-Any girl would be extremely lucky to have me. For I am the top of the bill when it comes to DNA.

-I am what this world needs right now.

-I am growth and meaning.

-I will be a great asset to anybody's life.

-MY LIFE AS A HUMAN BEING HAS VALUE AND I WILL NOT BE ****ING MISTREATED!!!


And that's why I am the prize to be won!

It will be useful for you to add a new line every now and then and repeat it to yourself as a mantra. Because guys it's not about fancy techniques you use on women. It's about fancy techniques you use on yourself. The way to believe something new is to doubt something old. Question a believe enough and it will cause doubt. This can help you. As you think, indeed you shall become :rolleyes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Masked_angel

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Great post man :)

Everyone should read "Why I am the prize to be won. And am I not desperate for a girl." two times a day so they don't forget ;)
 

ThePrize

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Thank you guys. I do these kind of exercises and record them in my journal. I use the journaling program "TheJournal". You can try it for free, after you download it from the internet.

I've come to find that journaling helps me achieve goals quicker and be more focused and motivated. It also helps for solving complicated problems by creating an overview.

Ps. I'm not talking about any "My dear diary" entries. :rolleyes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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