"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why ****y and Funny works

MakeItSo

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C&F is an effective tactic because it tells women: you've dealt with women before. THe only people who are naturally C&F are that way because of something: they're sick and tired of it, so they start viewing it in a funny way. It's the same way a good joke is born. And there is always some truth behind a joke...
Once you use enough C&F YOU WILL BE C&F and this is when women start loving you. Let it flow, they'll flock in no time. The more you're into it, they more they'll be eating it up. ...And don't forget to ask for there digits!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJHoolahoop

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that's one thing i keep forgetting... and the funny thing is, that you put it SO well.

"The only people who are naturally C&F are that way because of something: they're sick and tired of it, so they start viewing it in a funny way."

very good way to put it... cuz that's me all over.

Perhaps i'm a great DJ/PUA and just don't get anywhere cuz I don't ask :D.... hmmm :(
 
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