Why would....

[Pakwah]

...an older sister tell her younger sister (3 yrs younger) to stay away from a guy? One that knows both girls....the guy is more the older ones age.
To me its either the older one likes this guy or does not like him....what would you lean more on?
This older one sends the odd email and message to this guy, simple stuff, nothing threatening every now and then - a simple hi but never nothing more....

 

[Your_Royal_Flyness]

...an older sister tell her younger sister (3 yrs younger) to stay away from a guy? One that knows both girls....the guy is more the older ones age.
To me its either the older one likes this guy or does not like him....what would you lean more on?
This older one sends the odd email and message to this guy, simple stuff, nothing threatening every now and then - a simple hi but never nothing more....

Chicks do that for all sorts of reasons:
-he could be a pervert
-he could be a player
-he might have a girlfriend and be a cheater
-her younger sister could be a virgin
-the older chick could just be overprotective over her young sister
-the older chick could just be jaded over a past relationship and may be passing resentment onto her younger sis...
or
-the older chick likes him


....but given that the older chick is sending "hi" messages to him, it sounds like she likes him. Are you "the guy?"

 

[Dannyrt34]

^^^ I hope he is the guy lmao. If he's not he really needs better things to think about to fill his spare time.

 

[Pakwah]

...well yeah..lol

quick back story...i knew the older girl (emily), hung out a few times, hit it off i think - this was like 5 years ago - she went on a trip for a month - came back and i was hanging out with another girl
Then emily went out with another guy and got cheated on
Then i started working with her sister, heard that she liked me - but her sister was staying stay away from me
i was pegged a 'player' but i was not i just knew how to talk the talk
I told a guy at work that emily added me to facebook and said hello first, but i did not get it as she told her sister stay away from me
I was then the guy at work said - maybe she liked you still
Never thought of that
Now that she is online - i want to slowly see if i can bring her out - take her out - thing is she is a very smart girl - very cautious - independant - after all this time i have never really forgotten about her
I want to start with small conversation but not write her anymore than she writes me so i dont look desperate or like a stalker...you know...open ended questions...non threatening...take it as a marathon and not a sprint...i just want to see if i can talk to her and make her make a initial get together idea if it was going to happen...