"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why would anyone move and disconnect all contact with everyone they know?

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we had a family friend whose family moved to another state and we lost touch for a few years. when contact was remade between our mothers (who were best friends before the move ) my mother asked her how her son was. the answer was that he has left home, with none of his belongings , she has custody of his son, she can't say where he is but because she promised him but that she gets to visit once a year.
my mother asked where the mother of the child was... the answer was "she died."

when my mother hung up the phone, she called me and cried.. he must be in jail ... he must have killed the baby's mom.


well.... guess what? i googled it... and there it was... mother guessed it
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Of course they have big issues, otherwise they would have stayed settled.
But you're trying to throw an insult, which is uncalled for since you can't imagine or don't understand other people's thoughts and situations.
You're the typical ignorant who thinks that his way of thinking is the right one and that his life is the prototype by which everyone's lives are shaped.

Maybe one day you will ponder about your past, present and future and decide to take a measure that other ignorants will consider crazy.
Best thing I ever did TBH. I learned a lot that took me to good places when I finally returned home.
Quiksilver said:
It is hard, and I can say the past two and a half years have been very trying mentally and emotionally, but on the other end I'll be a better person for it. I'll have developed worldly contacts and a CV that employers may look twice at. I've experienced things that no one back home has, and now have a better sense of life and what it means.

It's been hard, oh so hard, but at least I haven't lived in a padded comfort zone that many are so fearful of leaving.

Also, the longer I've been away from my old life, the more important I've discovered that friendship is, and how there is serious merit to growing up in having a close community of friends and family around you. Don't take friendship and close bonds lightly.
Doesn't do much, eh?


And again, it is not running away! It is moving away!

If you lived in a sewer, but left it and tried to build a better life, would you call it "running away"?
Are you of the conviction that one must be the hero type and wrestle a bad environment until he dies?
 
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