“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why would anyone move and disconnect all contact with everyone they know?

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we had a family friend whose family moved to another state and we lost touch for a few years. when contact was remade between our mothers (who were best friends before the move ) my mother asked her how her son was. the answer was that he has left home, with none of his belongings , she has custody of his son, she can't say where he is but because she promised him but that she gets to visit once a year.
my mother asked where the mother of the child was... the answer was "she died."

when my mother hung up the phone, she called me and cried.. he must be in jail ... he must have killed the baby's mom.


well.... guess what? i googled it... and there it was... mother guessed it
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Of course they have big issues, otherwise they would have stayed settled.
But you're trying to throw an insult, which is uncalled for since you can't imagine or don't understand other people's thoughts and situations.
You're the typical ignorant who thinks that his way of thinking is the right one and that his life is the prototype by which everyone's lives are shaped.

Maybe one day you will ponder about your past, present and future and decide to take a measure that other ignorants will consider crazy.
Best thing I ever did TBH. I learned a lot that took me to good places when I finally returned home.
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It is hard, and I can say the past two and a half years have been very trying mentally and emotionally, but on the other end I'll be a better person for it. I'll have developed worldly contacts and a CV that employers may look twice at. I've experienced things that no one back home has, and now have a better sense of life and what it means.

It's been hard, oh so hard, but at least I haven't lived in a padded comfort zone that many are so fearful of leaving.

Also, the longer I've been away from my old life, the more important I've discovered that friendship is, and how there is serious merit to growing up in having a close community of friends and family around you. Don't take friendship and close bonds lightly.
Doesn't do much, eh?


And again, it is not running away! It is moving away!

If you lived in a sewer, but left it and tried to build a better life, would you call it "running away"?
Are you of the conviction that one must be the hero type and wrestle a bad environment until he dies?
 
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