"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why would a wealthy alpha rape?

MatureDJ

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http://www.cbssports.com/nfl/eye-on...er-admits-to-witnesses-sex-was-non-consensual

It appears that when conversing with women at bars, this guy likes to slip the date rape drug into her drink and then take her back & bang her. Now, this is a Hall of Fame capable football player (after this, he might not get the nod), with obviously some cash in the bank (he doesn't seem to be stupid and blow it on "bling").

I'm trying to understand why. He could afford high priced escorts. Perhaps he considers himself so cool that he shouldn't have to pay for it? I could understand a regular Joe that can't get regular poontang as an amateur nor paying for it resorting to this, but not someone with cash. I figure that $200K/yr on escorts should keep a man very satisfied.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Good question. Maybe his celebrity status made him feel like he was beyond consequences.

Or maybe he got off on the fact that she had no choice in the matter.

Also, this forum is full of posters who are wanting to have sex with no emotional entanglement (sort of like having a sex doll). Maybe this is an extreme version of that.
 

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you're underestimating the fantisies some men harbor. money or alphaness has nothing to do with it
 

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Do you think Tyson, Kobe Bryant raped? I don't believe it. I believe the women lied to get money.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dear MDJ,
"Why would a wealthy alpha rape?" In a word Power!
Many years ago in Australia,the proof of Rape and convincing the Police that they should prosecute,was such a tortuous business for a Woman,that often a Woman who slept around a bit wouldn't go through with it,of course now it has gone to the opposite extreme...To cut a long story short,I used to attend dances at a club called Parents without Partners, PWP for short, we called it Parents without Pants, cutting to the quick,there was a quite good looking Guy used to turn up,a great Dancer,he would woo a Lady,scoot her round the floor, then take her home,he would go via a lonely spot,stop and lean on her.....There were so many complaints about this Bloke,that the Guys who ran the show decided to take matters into their own hands,the next time he walked out to his car two big Maoris were waiting for him,they had special instructions,break the courting fingers on his right hand,and smash the instep of his foot,thereby crippling his two main pursuits,Dancing and Pvssy!He never turned up again!
 

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Believe it or not, when guys rape girls, they don't do so to flex their power or anything, like most believe.

Statistics indicate it's their only way to express their horniness. See Stephen Pinker's "The Blank Slate" for a detailed explanation. He systematically destroys any argument that "rape=power play," despite being a typical academic liberal.

So, assuming this alleged "alpha" is drugging and raping women NOT for power, but because he's horny, I would assume that he does so because for whatever reason, banging a "passed out" girl rather than a pro is more satisfying.

And in case you've never taken a "date rape" drug (typically royphenol, illegal in the states, but legal here, via prescription, in Japan) it doesn't "knock you out cold."

You're actually awake and aware of what you're doing, so it's not like he's banging girl's like they are passed out. They are likely awake and engaged in what's going on, they just don't remember anything.

I was once prescriped roofies as sleeping pills once, and I only remember watching the first ten minutes or so of "South Park," but I cooked and ate an entire meal, and had ZERO recollection of it.

So he slips them a roofie, gets to pretend he's banging a NON pro. (as she's likely awake and compliant when it happens).

THAT'S why.

Pro's are quick methodical, and it's hard to "pretend" their not pros.

AND, if he goes with pros, they'll likely blackmail him later,

With roofy girls, it's her word against his.
 

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samspade said:
I'm not totally following, do you mean the women agreed to this (date rape fantasy or something)? Or that they complied only while under the influence, but were drugged without knowing? Either scenario is possible, but I'm just not sure what you mean. If he's just horny he can go out and seduce women, that's what I do and I'm not a rich, muscular ex-footballer/TV personality. It sounds like you're saying his only options are a pro or a passed out girl and his motivation is horniness. We're all horny, that dog don't hunt.
Just because he's wealthy doesn't mean he can seduce girls or not.

My point is that people use date rape drugs because it makes it "seem" like they are seducing girls. People are not passed out cold, but are not really in control. They are much more compliant, and not likely to remember anything. They are too weak, mentally to put up any resistance.

People assume that a "date rape drug" is to make her pass out, and then you bang a passed out girl. She's not passed out. She's awake, just not really aware of what's going on. So a guy using a date rape drug can "pretend" that's he's really seducing them.

It's really not all that different than purposely getting a girl really drunk, drunk enough to be compliant, but not drunk enough to pass out.

His motivation is he wants to get laid, and believe it or not, in his mind, this is his best option.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tictac said:
If you are drugging women without their knowledge to get laid, you are a sicko that belongs in prison.

Bubba won't need Rufys to make his point in the lockup shower.
so what you are saying is that raping a woman is bad, but raping a man in prison is good? if yes, you are part of the problem.
rape is bad for anyone ffs, wtf is this perverse approach and funny remarks about prison rape like it's some kind of joke/rightful retribution. if rape is bad, raping the rapist is also bad. this society is fuked up big time.
 
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