Why would a married woman care whether I have a girlfriend or not?

[S. Pryor]

This is sort of a long read so bear with me experts. There was a woman that worked at my former school that I already graduated from that I was getting to know a couple years ago. I used to see her around all the time and this woman was STUNNING. I don't know how many wrestling fans we have on this board but if your memory banks can take you way back to 2000, seeing her was like when Trish Stratus made her debut. When she first came on the scene, Trish was gorgeous. This particular lady at school reminded me of Trish. But back to my original point, I used to see her around but we didn't start to really talk until a couple years later. Well one day we're talking and she just out of the blue asks me if I have a girlfriend. I already know she's married and has children. Not long after I met her she ended up pregnant. Now I understand just making conversation just to keep things going but what use could a married woman possibly get for knowing that? I can understand her asking if I liked skydiving or something like that. That would be trying to see if we have some of the same interests. Now of course I could have used your typical PUA material and been like what day of the week is it? Tuesday?...Ashley! or I have three girlfriends! Didn't really seem appropriate given the circumstances so I told her that I didn't have a girlfriend.

I can remember a time where another friend of mine was talking to her and I only caught the tail end of the conversation but they were talking about relationships. Now this guy is a pretty tactless mother****er. He's a good guy but this guy is known to ask or say the most inappropriate things you can imagine. But what I heard from her was "he sits in the corner and he doesn't say much to me". Now that isn't the word for word quote but she was talking about some guy being distant towards her. Now I can't say for certain and I'm sure my feet will be held to the fire on that but it sounded like was talking about her husband. There was another time I was talking to her and she asked me if I had a facebook. I've been asked by friends and family if I had an account but I don't. I really don't wanna get involved in that whole phenomenon of that and ****ter I mean twitter and all that stuff. And on top of that I don't have a pic of my face to put on the "book". And I know it's 2010 almost '11 and "you don't have pic to put up and blah blah blah" The fact of the matter is I don't and a faceless profile on facebook makes no sense. Anyway she asked and I told her no pic and she said put up a pic of something random. I don't remember what I said but she said confidently and without a beat "I'm gonna want a pic". I was like hmmm. What ever could she be angling for? Now I know most of us guys take certain things as IOI's but I don't think the notion was too crazy that there was some interest there. I can't say that I developed a crush on her because I wasn't interested in her being a "side piece" of some sorts but I wanted to **** her REALLY BAD. It wasn't one of those things where you see a hot chick and you'd think "yeah I'd **** her". No I really wanted to ****ing do it! But then I thought what if I really could do it? Would I have sex with this woman if I had the chance? It became a big deal to me cause I wouldn't wanna **** with someone's marraige like that. I don't think I could go through with it even if I didn't like the guy. A chick's boyfriend? Who gives a **** about that guy? There's no rings or no vows involved but there is in a marriage.

As far as the lady I've been referring to this whole time, I don't know her husband but I've seen pics and this guy looks like he would kill a mother****er that even accepted a ****ING handjob from his wife. Which by the way I've shaken her hand plenty of times to know that at the very least she'd give a great handjob. If she was jerking your **** full throttle you'd *** in like 15 seconds and I'm not kidding! Have you ever been asked the girlfriend question by a married woman? Did you work your charm and **** her somehow? Did you give a **** about her marriage? I know if I didn't give a **** I'd be screwing her into submission and that's word to Alexyss K. Tylor. And I'd have this playing in the background....http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h2og7YuSg08

 

[PectoralisMajor]

too long to read.

 

[Uberguy]

Maybe she just likes to flirt with men, as an ego boost to remind herself that she's still got it. Or maybe she's looking to cheat. For some people (probably most people these days), vows don't mean sh!t.

There was one woman I was f*cking for months without any idea that she was engaged. When I found out through a mutual friend that she was getting married, I confronted her to call things off. I called her a slut, and she got angry at me for being "so judgmental." She tried to justify herself by explaining that her husband-to-be was terrible in bed and she was only marrying him for the money.

This didn't exactly help her case.

There are countless wh0res out there that don't regard marriage as anything more than a source of income from some poor sucker's hard work. And if they cheat on their husbands, they'll find some convoluted way to justify it to themselves. I can't say whether or not this is definitely the case with the woman you're dealing with, but if it is, she is a low-quality woman.

 

[S. Pryor]

too long to read.

My fellow American...aren't we so proud?

 

[S. Pryor]

Uberguy it sounds like the woman you were dealing with was a bit of a hustler but you still had the upper hand the whole time. And you have good morals. If she wasn't getting ****ed properly then she'd never be satisfied with her situation. There's always somebody out there that can actually **** you properly AND have more money. Sounds like she was hustling but hustling backwards. She might marry that guy but she won't be happy at least not until she eventually divorces the guy. And that guy won't be happy cause he'd always be trying to make her happy. It's a never ending cycle.

As far as the woman I knew I don't know if she's flirting with me necessarily but I took note of what I heard. She's a really cool person and the people that know and talk to her love her. I've never heard anyone say "oh she's a bitch" and blah blah blah. People love coming up and talking to her. When I see her I don't get the flirting vibe with other people. They just talk to her like a friend. Was she getting dick elsewhere? I don't know maybe, maybe not. I don't know if she's low quality. She's well traveled, cool, caring the whole nine. I don't know if she married for money but she's really not doing too good these days.

 

[S. Pryor]

So you guys don't have hot married chicks wanting to **** you and suck your ****? I want me some white, black, latina, asian coochie/***** whatever you mutha****as wanna call it!

 

[Uglyfrustratedchump]

why do you want to **** a married woman when there are a lot of single girls out there?

 

[S. Pryor]

Not saying it's right but look at all the Hollywood actresses, singers and entertainers. You know that a good chunk of them are married but you still wanna hit that *****! You would turn THEM down just because they have a ring? Most of us would make an exception for that.

 

[Uglyfrustratedchump]

maybe i'm from the stone age but i dont get myself involved with married woman, but if it's your thing go ahead.

 

[DonGorgon]

Cause marriage means nothing at all... women use being married and a rejection tool on men they dont want to F... its that simple... married women cheat all the time.... FACT

 

[Berlex]

Maybe she wanted to hook you up with her daughter?

 

[S. Pryor]

Maybe she wanted to hook you up with her daughter?

Her daughter isn't even a teen yet. I'm almost 23 man gotta leave the kids to the kids y'know.

 

[Big Overseas 1]

I been finding out lately that even married women still want you for your attention if nothing else.

 

[runner83]

1) Too long to read - use the enter button and put some paragraphs if you expect people to read it

2) Secondly, there's an 94.35% chance you're wasting your time.

3) Don't waste your time going after women with kids, unless you're only in it for a quick f*ck (unless you have kids yourself).

 

[S. Pryor]

1) Too long to read - use the enter button and put some paragraphs if you expect people to read it

2) Secondly, there's an 94.35% chance you're wasting your time.

3) Don't waste your time going after women with kids, unless you're only in it for a quick f*ck (unless you have kids yourself).

1. I said it was a long ****ing read to begin with. If a mother****er is too lazy to read things in full then **** your advice. You must spend a lot of time in America because I'm sure people Australia don't actually mind READING.

2. I didn't even say I was going for it, I just asked a question and provided details.

3. I don't have kids myself and I didn't pursue it. Thus me saying I didn't use any PUA material on her. I don't get involved with women with kids anyway. What is this place the ****ing Twilight Zone?

 

[S. Pryor]

What's with the damn divide between the views and the replies? A thread can have 3076 views but have only four replies. I know that nothing is new under the sun but **** got damn! It's called CON-TRIB-U-TING players! Help out your fellow man.

 

[Uberguy]

What's with the damn divide between the views and the replies? A thread can have 3076 views but have only four replies. I know that nothing is new under the sun but **** got damn! It's called CON-TRIB-U-TING players! Help out your fellow man.

It's no big deal, bro. That happens with most posts on this site. There's many more people who come here to get advice than those who come here to share advice. Which is understandable. Given how crazy most women are, I expect a lot more guys to seek answers than try to provide them.

Anyway, I don't judge you for thinking some married women are hot. All is fair in love and war. But I still generally recommend avoiding married women for your own sake, because there are only two possible outcomes:

OUTCOME 1) She remains faithful to her husband because she believes in the sanctity of her vows (contrary to what some people write here, this DOES happen with some people). Therefore, any and all efforts you make with her are a complete waste of your time. You feed her ego and need for attention without any hope of satisfying your need for nook.

OUTCOME 2) You seduce her. And yes, the sex might be awesome. But it might not be. It could be that she's open to an affair because her husband has gotten bored of what a bad lay she is. Either way, you're having sex with a duplicitous girl, and those types can often lead to trouble. Maybe she won't tell you that she has an STD. Maybe she's really into you and she'll intentionally get pregnant with your child while insisting she's on the pill. Maybe she'll accuse you of rape. (False allegations DO happen) This isn't necessarily the case with any one particular woman, but I'm just saying that if a woman is a cheater, there's no doubt that she's also a liar who won't have a problem deceiving a man to get what she wants.