"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why would a 21 year old man do this to himself?

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Just want some perspective on this. Met up with a former co worker of mine at the bar this past weekend. Mind you she is pretty good looking but that's about all there is. Prototypical materialistic person. Well she just recently got married a year ago. She has 4 boys from two different men. She's 32 and her husband is only 21. I was like wtf is wrong with that guy. I dunno about you folk but damn when I was 21 the last thing on my mind was getting married aspecially to some broad over 10 years older than me with 4 kids from 2 different men. her oldest is 14 years old. So her husband is only 7 years older than her oldest son. Yowza!

So she tells me she just had another boy about 5 months ago from this guy she married. She tells me she wants a daughter so bad. I just started laughing inside like wow 3 different guys 5 boys. Hmmmm doesn't seem like that daughter is gonna happen. lol. This guy isn't bad looking either but he is a huge wussy. I mean he is all over her like she is the best thing in this world. He even states she's all mine like in his mind she is the best thing ever and all the other men want her. lol. Just weird to me. Why would a 21 year old settle for some used up baby maker ten years older than him?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Most people just don't stop to think.

It's that simple. They're brought up in a traditional family, but they never bother to learn the rhyme or reason behind the partnership, and blindly follow suit for whatever comes along.

Add to that a host of pop-culture that worships women as demi-deities, and it's almost an aspect of SHAME for a young man in today's society to NOT have a woman on which to dote.

Of course, without knowing the two, I can't say for sure. :p
 
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^^ I'd say there is some truth to this ^^ , I'm sure he's "going with the flow of love" as he feels it, and little does he know there may be an undercurrent in his future.

also -- maybe she makes him pancakes in the morning with her five other kids.
 
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