"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why wont women show interest?

Victory Unlimited

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Yeah NSUballer,


If I were you, I'd go ahead and get a definitive answer from her. That way, you won't have to spend any more of your precious mental energy "wondering". And especially since she's a friend of a friend that you've been knowing for awhile, I imagine that you would REALLY have to make your intentions as clear as you can.

That's because you probably really are talking to that "rare" woman who actually COULD misunderstand your attentions simply because of the nature of your past, long-term, peripheral relationship.

Yeah bro'. Go ahead and solve that "will she or won't she" mystery------and leave all the elaborate detective work to Robert Downey Jr. for whenever he decides to make his next Sherlock Holmes movie. lol


Much RESPECT to you.


V.U.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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neugene said:
From my observation, Females, more so then men,
are very afraid of rejection. Really, to approach anyone and show interest
is intimidating. So what a lot of females do is sneak a look at their interests
and then create an excuse for themselves as to why she will not approach
or even show interest. Her Loss, but she may never admit this to herself.
I have a saying that "most Females, are in second class relationships"
What I mean by that is, because they do not approach the man or men
they find interesting, they lose out on their number one interest, which
forces them to wait until another male (2nd male), to approach them. If
the 2nd male is half way decent enough, then she may get involved with
him. "2nd Class relationship."
Most will argue that females are not meant to approach males. That's not
entirely true. Because, if her desire of affection is someone she is aware of
is for example, rich and/or famous, she will set aside her pride or fears and approach that male.
Bottom line, females act this way, Women do not. Women know how to intelligently approach the man of her interest and not take it too personal IF rejected.
Women are afraid of rejection more than men?! Ripley's wouldn't even believe that ****! Women can have a man whenever they want. Most men can't do that sh*t. A woman may be hurt if a rich and famous person turns her down.

But I do agree with the 2nd class relationships. If a woman gets with a man who is halfway decent, she might get attached and promote him to boyfriend status.

A woman who really wants you will plow through a mountain to get to you. A woman who really doesn't want you will make you fight dragons to get to her. Even then, you still might not get her.
 

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maybe they're nervous around you? that's the only reason i see for a woman to show ZERO interest in someone they are interested in. most will usually give a little around someone they like.
 
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