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Why Women will always Control MOST of you

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Leif_Johnson said:
Do you know anything about being an Alpha? Do you know anything about being an assertive man? Do you know anything about being a man of power?

Alpha men know what they want and are not afraid to get it, no matter what it is. Alpha men are the King of the jungle, they don't sit back passively worrying about insignificant crap or how others perceive them like you.

Alpha men will choose want they want and they will get it. Powerful men with money will most certainly decide to have what brand of car and color they want. The salesman does not have him by the balls. The powerful man strolls on the lot and lays his money down. He is in charge of everything just like an Alpha is. The salesman just smiles making up the paperwork making a commission on the sale.

What an awful example you gave here. Would a man who has money and options settle for a Suzuki when he can get the Lamborghini he wants just because the price is right for regular people? The price is right for him because he can afford it. Men who can't afford it can only dream of having that car. That man can own it himself because he can. Why are you telling men not to have the best when an alpha is the best?

Would an Alpha settle for a 4 when he can have an easy 8 at a club he wants to bang? He can get the 8 because he can. Betas can only whack off to those women they can't get. You are sort of right though, the woman will have the Alpha by the balls when she is sucking on them later on that night.

Under no circumstances should you ever feel like you can't get what you want. Never be afraid of being assertive to get what you desire. That is what being a man is. Betas and inferior men can't get what they want, so they always settle for less acting like they are satisfied.

I can't understand why someone like you who claims to be an Alpha would tell men not to get what you want in life and feel powerless for doing it.
Awesome post bud.
 

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Leif you're missing the point entirely.

OP is not saying do not go for what you want in life, he is saying be complete with yourself, and do not NEED a woman to fulfill you.

Only then do you have power. You will still pursue various goals and women if you want, but you will not be ruled by the outcome. The man of power does not always get the hottest girl, he isnt always some rich guy with a lamborghini - he is the man who has control of himself and isnt dependent on outside events to make him happy.

You can be the richest guy with the hottest girlfriends yet still be a weak little bîtch who will be ruined when all that gets taken away (and it all gets taken away eventually). Is that "alpha"? Master yourself, and the rest falls into place naturally.
 

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jurry said:
Master yourself, and the rest falls into place naturally.
Interesting. What's your definition of mastering yourself?
 

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Poon King said:
Once you decide you "have to have" a woman, they have you by the balls for life. You will never have power in your relationships with them.
Men can't want a woman and still have a strong frame?
 

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Leif_Johnson said:
Do you know anything about being an Alpha? Do you know anything about being an assertive man? Do you know anything about being a man of power?

Alpha men know what they want and are not afraid to get it, no matter what it is. Alpha men are the King of the jungle, they don't sit back passively worrying about insignificant crap or how others perceive them like you.

Alpha men will choose want they want and they will get it. Powerful men with money will most certainly decide to have what brand of car and color they want. The salesman does not have him by the balls. The powerful man strolls on the lot and lays his money down. He is in charge of everything just like an Alpha is. The salesman just smiles making up the paperwork making a commission on the sale.
You clearly missed the point. Its not about the car, the money or the women. Its about having a weak and desperate mindset.

Think deeper.

Leif_Johnson said:
What an awful example you gave here. Would a man who has money and options settle for a Suzuki when he can get the Lamborghini he wants just because the price is right for regular people? The price is right for him because he can afford it. Men who can't afford it can only dream of having that car. That man can own it himself because he can. Why are you telling men not to have the best when an alpha is the best?
Well.. "the best" is very subjective. You clearly missed the point. Its not about the car, the money or the women. Its about having a weak and desperate mindset.

Think deeper.

Leif_Johnson said:
Would an Alpha settle for a 4 when he can have an easy 8 at a club he wants to bang? He can get the 8 because he can. Betas can only whack off to those women they can't get. You are sort of right though, the woman will have the Alpha by the balls when she is sucking on them later on that night.
All creatures on earth have limits to what they can get in life. If you think being an "alpha" means no limits.. then you're a buffoon.

Leif_Johnson said:
Under no circumstances should you ever feel like you can't get what you want.
Yeah? Well you must be 12. Those of us who live in reality know this statement makes you look like an idiot.

Lets say an "Alpha" wants to grow two extra arms or live on Saturn.

What say you now? :crackup:

Leif_Johnson said:
Never be afraid of being assertive to get what you desire. That is what being a man is. Betas and inferior men can't get what they want, so they always settle for less acting like they are satisfied.

I can't understand why someone like you who claims to be an Alpha would tell men not to get what you want in life and feel powerless for doing it.
I didn't tell men that. You're just not smart enough to understand my advanced statements.
 

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Leif_Johnson said:
Under no circumstances should you ever feel like you can't get what you want. Never be afraid of being assertive to get what you desire. That is what being a man is. Betas and inferior men can't get what they want, so they always settle for less acting like they are satisfied.
Yes, wanting and needing something doesn't make you weak or desperate.

It's your mind set that determines how you behave.

DJ's know how to accomplish that.
 

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I've never had to sell my balls to have women. Weak men do stuff like that. If you let a woman control the relationship then you're headed for a train wreck.
 

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Top Of The Game said:
I've never had to sell my balls to have women. Weak men do stuff like that. If you let a woman control the relationship then you're headed for a train wreck.
Women will only control men if they let them.
 

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Another sh!tty thread by poonking/burroughs/playherman , where OP argues with people for days and calls people beta when they dont agree with everything he says.

Dude your threads suck. Do you ever have anything positive to share?
 

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Jaylan said:
Another sh!tty thread by poonking/burroughs/playherman , where OP argues with people for days and calls people beta when they dont agree with everything he says.

Dude your threads suck. Do you ever have anything positive to share?
Its not about "positive" or "negative" its about reality and truth. Reality is value-neutral. How you interpret it is up to you. So cry about it some more. Only girls and queers need everything to be "positive".

You're well known as the biggest b!tch on this site. Your beta anger proves your beta status.
 

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Poon King said:
Its not about "positive" or "negative" its about reality and truth. Reality is value-neutral. How you interpret it is up to you. So cry about it some more. Only girls and queers need everything to be "positive".

You're well known as the biggest b!tch on this site. Your beta anger proves your beta status.
Yup. Im the big b!tch whos happy with his life, getting laid frequently, and not wasting time constantly whining and steering men onto the path of pessimism with tired ole threads.

How about some fck reports? How about some threads that will uplift men, and give them something good to discuss. Whats with inflammatory threads all the time...and telling men they will be controlled by women? And then you insult people who come into your threads and dont agree with everything you say. Its the same damn thing all the time.

How about you focus on getting laid, and help guys with some useful advice that doesnt revolve around telling them they suck or that women suck. You useless fvking troll sock. You are no king of poon. Thats for sure. Go smoke a c0ck loser. Those are the only genitals idiots like you can attract.
 

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Jaylan said:
Yup. Im the big b!tch whos happy with his life, getting laid frequently, and not wasting time constantly whining and steering men onto the path of pessimism with tired ole threads.

How about some fck reports? How about some threads that will uplift men, and give them something good to discuss. Whats with inflammatory threads all the time...and telling men they will be controlled by women? And then you insult people who come into your threads and dont agree with everything you say. Its the same damn thing all the time.

How about you focus on getting laid, and help guys with some useful advice that doesnt revolve around telling them they suck or that women suck. You useless fvking troll sock. You are no king of poon. Thats for sure. Go smoke a c0ck loser. Those are the only genitals idiots like you can attract.

For someone so "happy with his life" you sure spend a lot of time whining about the threads I post. For someone so "happy with their life" you sure spend a lot of time worrying about the actions of Poon King. For someone so "happy with his life" you sure sound very angry.

You're not fooling anyone dude.

Your beta anger proves your beta status.
 

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Poon King said:
For someone so "happy with his life" you sure spend a lot of time whining about the threads I post. For someone so "happy with their life" you sure spend a lot of time worrying about the actions of Poon King. For someone so "happy with his life" you sure sound very angry.

Your beta anger proves your beta status.
Aren't you whining about women and the men who desire women?

Size Queen is trolling SS looking to groom his perfect harem of women despising "Alpha" Key West cabana boys. LMAO
 

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The Goon King is nothing but a buffoon. He had ample opportunities to answer any of the comments people posted in a scholarly way. He only answers in child like insults and repeating the same cliches over again. That's the sign of a person who doesn't know anything. If he was well schooled in women and game he could answer in detail.

Every man needs a woman for certain things. If you think you don't then you are a complete idiot. Men with a backbone don't hand over their balls to anybody.

The purpose of becoming good at something is to learn about it. The first relationship you are in you might be a beta. But you learn from what you did wrong and you don't do it with the next woman.

I'm sure Thomas Edison fvcked up on his inventions when he first tried them out. If he threw up his hands saying the light bulb is more powerful than him then we wouldn't have it. Same thing as with women, if you cry and whine that women are better than you, will control you, have more power, not loyal, don't give a sh!t then you can never be successful with women. Real men of power, men who are positive, men who are good with women don't live with a negative defeatist mindset like this.
 

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As always, a great post from Poon King

I would just add that a if man makes himself desirable to women, he will never "have to have" a PARTICULAR woman. Even if he desires a woman, he can operate and portray to her that he doesn't need that particular woman. Again, to use the business analogy, when you negotiate a deal, you can negotiate a great deal if you are good at hiding from the counterparty that you really want to close the deal. Once the counterparty gets wind that you really want the deal, all bargaining power is lost.

I would also add that once married, without a prenuptial agreement, then you lose all bargaining power by virtue of the court/family law system; rather than your behaviour per se

Poon King said:
Once you decide you "have to have" a woman, they have you by the balls for life. You will never have power in your relationships with them.

So if this is the case.. and you are a man that MUST have a woman.. there is no reason to learn "game" or anything else. Just go ahead and submit. You have already lost.

I didn't start doing really well with women until I decided I didn't need one. Its the most liberating thing you can do because it frees you to live however you want, say whatever you want and act however you want around women. Simply because you DON'T CARE if they get mad, or don't like you.

This is a rule of life.. not just of women: Once you decide you "have to have" a particular product or person, you give up all leverage in negotiating on price and terms. You surrender your advantage in the marketplace, willingly. And you have no one but yourself to blame, when it inevitably goes horribly wrong.

Women are not oxygen.

When you decide you "have to have" a particular brand and make and model of car, well, the salesman has you by the balls. When you decide that hey, you really don't give a sh*t what color it is, or even what brand, so long as the price is right, well, now you have choices in the marketplace.

The person who cares the LEAST is the person who can set the price and dictate the terms of an agreement. Because hey.. if they don't agree you will simply shrug and walk away.

The majority of you men on this site care the MOST. Because you decided you "have to have" a woman. Therefore, you have no power. You cannot dictate the terms of anything. So why waste your time here learning "game"? Just go ahead and offer the world to the next woman you see. Because you have no power.. and even if you use "game" on her now.. in time your inner beta loser will come out and your desperation will be revealed.. and she will have you by the balls. So just place your balls in her hands NOW and save yourself the trouble.
 

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seasonedplayer said:
I would just add that a if man makes himself desirable to women, he will never "have to have" a PARTICULAR woman. Even if he desires a woman, he can operate and portray to her that he doesn't need that particular woman. Again, to use the business analogy, when you negotiate a deal, you can negotiate a great deal if you are good at hiding from the counterparty that you really want to close the deal. Once the counterparty gets wind that you really want the deal, all bargaining power is lost.

More mental masturbation. Portraying and pretending you don't want that particular woman doesn't matter when you still indeed want to fvck her. When she is hot and ripe for the pickings you fvck her. You don't downgrade for another because of a bullsh!t mindset thinking she will own your ass if you want her. That's what a man does, he gets what he wants without beng a little b!tch. Looks like you need a lot more seasoning to shake off the cob webs for your game player agreeing with his bullsh!t.
 
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