Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why Women Should Not Be On This Site

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PVSSY-EATER

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Thank God for diablo, closing down a thread from an attention ***** coming on to a mans site, trying to turn this site into Oprah.

What you guys must understand, is that this site is strictly for men for the only single purpose, that we cannot teach women how to be women. We only can be men, that is all we can be, fellows, Afcs, try to be women, and even give women advice on how to be women.

That is why whey a woman talks to you, just let her talk. What she is really doing is getting all of her thoughts out there, so she can decide which one is the right one for her to live by. We cannot teach her anything about being a woman, we can only be men.

So for all the guys on this site, who embrace women coming to this site and asking questions about their boyfriends, you must understand the reasons as to why she is doing this.

Reason one, she just wants to put her thoughts out there, like I just explained, to figure out which one is the one she will stick with.

Reason two, she is on this site, snooping around, trying to figure out what it is that men are doing that keep them so excitied, and they want to try to break that.

Reason three, she is just trying to control. Like any woman would, if you allowed her to.

You guys got mad at me when I dissed Just like Candy, but I had to. I had to stand up and be a man. You guys were trying to help her, and God bless your heart, but the best help you could have given her, was to say, Be happy Just like Candy, that you have a real man in your life, who is a challenge, has a life, and is doing something. Thank God Candy, you dont have a man that you can just walk over and run over, you really dont want that kind of man, nor do you need that kind of man...

I hope you guys understand me.....I love this site, this site has helped me. I love you guys, because a lot of you are and were just like me....and I am only here to help, not hurt, but to help, you guys become free, just as guys like Pook and some others, have helped me get free. Thank you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There are some women on this site that are ok. They act normal and are actually good for this site. They give GOOD advice and don't ask questions about "a guy did *this* so what should I do?"
 

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and external you are correct, I believe wyldfire was a good example of that.....

But when they come on here like that candy girl, trouble is waiting in the shadows.
 

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I'm not bothering or causing any trouble. I just asked a simple question. Who knew 7 pages worth of dialog would follow...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
...I think we have a bigger problem with AFC's here.

"Should I (and when) call her?"
"Where should I take her on a date?"

:rolleyes:
I agree. I get less out of really young AFC posts because they are in such an early stage. They are still getting over the initial hurdle and realizing that women don't pee perfume. It would be nice if a forum was dedicated to the virgin AFC starting out. Who would hit this though? :confused:
 

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You guys got mad at me when I dissed Just like Candy, but I had to. I had to stand up and be a man.
Or you could be a bigger man and just not read the thread since you already know it is not of any importance to you. Remember your free not to read it, you're free not to reply and your free not to start a whole new thread to continue what you know is going to be nothing but a dumb flame war.
 

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She's just annoying... a nuisance.
If you don't like her post then just ignore it or flame it only once and forget about it. :D

If she starts giving AFCs bad advice then i would move to get rid of her,
but right now she's not doing any damage to the forum besides being whiny and annoying.

I think you're over reacting.
 

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so I guess then belvierdue, that I should just not say anything, while the attention *****s try to take over the damn site....I should just sit back and do nothing right, because its none of my damn business right, wrong.

I want you....oh my God I want you to go to a site like this, but one with all women on it....go on there and ask women how to make my girlfirend like me better....haha, watch dont they kick yo azz off.

the only people defending her are the AFCs, the real men here, will tell her to get the hell off, this is a site to help men, not to help women!

YOu want me to ignore that.......and just eventually have a discussion board full of women and men giving them advice on their boyfriends, what the hell is that?

I guess, I am the only man speaking up, and guess what, I WILL NOT SHUT UP.
 

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Hm, I don't dislike her...but I dislike reading her posts. She comes across as a whiny, teeny-bopper for some reason.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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alright lets take a look at the last situation. A girl comes around and posts a thread and it gets 7 pages of responses and like 1300+ hits. Most of the pages are pointless flamings but none the less the thread stays on top. So if you think she is an attention ***** you just managed to keep her thread on top and continue to bury every other thread that might actually be usefull or be something that you can honestly give advice on since you've been in the guys spot.

Do you think that instead of everyone jumping to comment on her thread that if everyone ignored it and didn't reply that she would stay here. No, if this site is ineffective towards women than they will find another forum where people will listen. Why would women flood this board if they were ignored? Would attention *****s come here if they knew they were going to start shi't, get flamed and get attention? Yes. You cannot complain about being burned when you're feeding the fire.
 

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As with all attention wh*res, the more attention you feed them, the more they'll act out. Part of being a man is understanding when the time is to speak up, and when holding your tongue is more appropriate. There are several saps on the forum who give terrible advice, advice that I wouldn't want any guy attempting to better himself to ever heed or even consider listening to. If a guy chooses to listen to this, then he does so at his own peril. Whether it was written by a girl or a guy makes no difference - this is the anonymous internet, where anyone can claim to be anything. To prove the point, PVSSYEATER could be a 42 year old mother of 2 children who are at dance recital right now... we just don't know. It doesn't matter. What matters is the quality of the advice and replies that someone posts to this site. Crap advice will generally be ignored by all but the dumbest of dumb, and good advice will be viewed favorably by anyone worth their salt.

Threads like this aren't beneficial to the site and shouldn't be created to begin with. While I understand the sentiments, and applaud the initiative, it's really not your call to make. If you're really gung-ho about "getting women off the site", why not make a poll in anything else asking that all females be banned? Although what's to stop a female from registering as a male and flying under the radar is beyond me... :rolleyes:
 
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