"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Why women love it when you don't give a FU*K

zekko

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I've read some of her stuff, she started out working for a male PUA guru, so a lot of it the same things you usually hear.

Anyway, regarding not giving a fvck, when she talks about being relaxed and expressing your opinions, this is basically being yourself. Since you aren't trying to impress her, you are able to let your natural charms and personality shine through. As opposed to getting all uptight, nervous, and tiptoeing around her afraid to make a mistake.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Paid actor, notice her eye motions are not congruent with what she is trying to convey.

Most men realize they don't give a fvck when a prospect is not up to par with their standards. If they were up to standards, they will be salivating. So, training your mind to "not give a fvck" requires a re-wiring of your expectations. Why compromise those expectations? You are creating synthetic chemistry, is that something you want?
 

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Paid actor, notice her eye motions are not congruent with what she is trying to convey.

Most men realize they don't give a fvck when a prospect is not up to par with their standards. If they were up to standards, they will be salivating. So, training your mind to "not give a fvck" requires a re-wiring of your expectations. Why compromise those expectations? You are creating synthetic chemistry, is that something you want?
But your expectations might be a VISUAL reality, which is NOT good for you and MANY women line up their VISUALS to appear that way, but it's really nothing but giftwrapping on an empty box. So you do have to train yourself not to pedastalize based off of appearance alone.
 
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