"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why women leave men they love.

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Mauser96 said:
As an aside, the sex started dropping off within months of me getting married. All the promises of the variety of things we would do ONCE married....disappeared. As if they never existed. See the hook was already set and she knew it. AND THIS IS NOT MY STORY ALONE. IT IS REPEATED IN MARRIAGE AFTER MARRIAGE WITH GUYS MY AGE I TALK TO.
Preach!

I remember those days man.

We fcuked our brains out when dating, whenever I wanted it and she even initiated :cheer: all a hook my brother. It was all a mothafcuking hook.

After "Yes, I do" it was like Christmas if we had sex and i initiated 100% this was like 2 months after marriage and continued years after till I just couldn't take it any longer.

I'm glad today that I walked and didnt stay just because of our child.


The article is a little spot on just has a lot of beta tendencies.

Believe me, your girl does not want a lot of attention from you however she doesnt want zero attention from you.

Be busy enough for your time together to be valuable.

Be available enough to know what's going on in her life.

Be conscious enough to balance both.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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