Why Women Give Bad Dating Advice

[djbr]

Damn. I was shooting for 400% back then. I'll try harder,..

I could easily have said 492,43891109824444...%.

Love to use weird numbers, LOL!

 

[God_of_getting_layed]

they give bad advice on almost everthing.

Critical thinking ability is correlated with mathematical intelligence, not with verbal intelligence-which the females have.

Thats true, critical thinking is correlated with mathematical intelligence. Sorry to say, but most guys on this forum have zero mathematical intelligence, and are dumb as rocks. Yet, The guys that do have this get criticized for "overanalyzing things".

 

[bigjohnson]

"Oh, size doesn't really matter so much"
"I think guys with big muscles look gross"
"Money's not really all that important"
"I'm tired of bad boys, I want a nice guy"

Get the point yet?

They say what you want to hear, and they don't understand what they are programmed biologically to want. Put the two together and you get bad advice. Women are normally wired to want to please, to supplicate and to submit, but only to someone who they respect and who they believe has their best interests in mind.

Western media and culture tries to counteract that, as if it's somehow bad that women are not just penisless men. Fighting biology is a tough row to hoe, fortunately.

 

[Mr.Positive]

Great discussion...my experience is the times I brought flowers on a first date (mom's wonderful advise), I didn't get a second date! Years ago, and I learned quick never to do that again.

I do think that some women might actually, deep down, want what they say they do. They just want to create, or change, men to gain more control in the relationship. For example, a women says she likes "nice" guys, but only dates azzholes, and the azzholes treat her like crap. However..if she can change the guy into an AFC, she will have created the relationship she really wanted..and have bragging rights with her friends. Thoughts?

So basically, if you want to know what a women really wants, just ask her. Then do the exact opposite.

 

[bigjohnson]

...a women says she likes "nice" guys, but only dates azzholes, and the azzholes treat her like crap. However..if she can change the guy into an AFC, she will ....

Lose interest and make up some lame excuse. She may also brag to her friends and so forth, but I don't care about her friends.