Why women don't mention their boyfriend

[SL2012]

This one cute chick who comes into my work place here and there I kind of get a good vibe from.

When I asked her how her weekend went, she said "Well WE went hiking/camping in Upstate New York.

I did not ask who WE was, but I assume it was the boyfriend.

Now, I personally believe, a girl who is attracted to you who has a boyfriend will AVOID telling you she has a boyfriend either because she feels attraction to you or she likes the attention she is getting and is not looking to cheat

 

[GetFit66]

Not necessarily, some girls like the dominance an aggressive alpha would bring to the table by still going for her after that little stunt.

Ofcourse you know the whole back story, so you know best. Figure out the psychology behind it and you'll have your answer.

 

[nismo-4]

Now, I personally believe, a girl who is attracted to you who has a boyfriend will AVOID telling you she has a boyfriend either because she feels attraction to you or she likes the attention she is getting and is not looking to cheat

This is true. And women who are interested in you won't confuse you.

But always call a woman's bluff. If a woman pulls the IHAB, it typically means not interested. If it seems that way or she's throwing mixed signals, walk away. Judge nismo's ruling.

Case closed.

 

[Aubree]

Well, if you're not sure if she actually has a boyfriend, do NOT start trying to figure out if she really has a boyfriend or not. There’s no clever way to do this. And if you show that you’re still hung up on this boyfriend thing, she’ll lose attraction. Don’t worry – eventually her status will become obvious. But you might have to wait a bit.

 

[Renegade357]

If I'm having a great convo with a chick in a bar and we're really starting to get a good vibe I'll just come right out and say "are you single?" before I ask for a number. I have a pretty good success rate doing that.

I mean these days I don't give a crap anymore. Either they are or they aren't. I've asked for a number before and gotten "I have a boyfriend" plenty of times. I just like being straight forward with them.

Bottom line is if they like you and they are single they're gonna give you the phone number.

 

[RedZone]

I never ask a girl I'm attracted to if they have a bf because honestly it doesn't matter. It's just an obstacle.

 

[Victory Unlimited]

I agree with Renegade357.

The best way to cut through all the bull is to call women out on things EARLY (and "often---if need be).

Whenever you're interested in a woman and you feel like her interest in you or her availability for you is in question----be DIRECT.

Calmly and confidently ask her a no bullshyt, pointblank question and she will be immediately put on the spot. She will either drop her coy act and answer your question in a more definitive way, or she will hem, haw, stutter, or outright "lie" to avoid answering your question.

In fact, in some cases you don't even have to ask her if she has a boyfriend. You can get the same results by also asking her to do something so obviously romantic or sexual that she simply "won't" be able to avoid confirming or denying her romantic or sexual availability.

Either way she responds---you'll STILL have your answer. It'll still be a win-win situation because you'll know beyond a shadow of doubt whether you should spend MORE time with her---or if should STOP wasting your time with her.


Soldier on.


V.U.

 

[Renegade357]

I never ask a girl I'm attracted to if they have a bf because honestly it doesn't matter. It's just an obstacle.

If she has a boyfriend you are wasting your time. She's not available. End of story. Real men value their time.

 

[RedZone]

Not really. How do you know she is not available? Just because she says she has a boyfriend. When has that stopped any girl from doing anything? Not much. If you are more interesting it doesn't matter.

 

[Maximus Rex]

This one cute chick who comes into my work place here

Don't f*ck with women that have any dealings with your place of employment.

 

[Uncharted]

If you're not sure if she has a boyfriend or not, here's the best way to find out:


ASK HER OUT!


She will immediately tell you that she has a boyfriend (if she does). If she does not mention a boyfriend, she is either single or she's about to break it off with him for you.

 

[floydb25]

If you're not sure if she has a boyfriend or not, here's the best way to find out:


ASK HER OUT!


She will immediately tell you that she has a boyfriend (if she does). If she does not mention a boyfriend, she is either single or she's about to break it off with him for you.

You forgot option C, Alex:

She doesn't give a **** if she has a BF, and is willing to cheat - then go back to him as if nothing happened.

This is most common, IME. She'll come on strong; all about the sex... then act like she doesn't want a relationship, or to date... maybe acting like you're not good enough, or whatever BS excuse... when she's seeing someone all along. The lies and excuses are endless.

Chicks who are up for immediate sex are usually big time players and wh0res... especially if they come up to YOU, and push for it. 9-10, they think that YOU don't care that they don't care if they cheat.

 

[LiveFreeX]

A girl who doesn't mention her boyfriend is a slvt, plain and simple.

Do you want to date a slvt? Are you that low on the totem pole?

If she does it to him, she'll do it with you.