"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why women don't fall for nice guys

Bonhomme

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Wow. Dude sure needs work. The dating coach didn't come across as b1tchy to me, just calling 'em as she sees 'em.

I liked the gal he was set up with, though.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Bonhomme said:
I liked the gal he was set up with, though.
I would have tapped her quicker than a heartbeat! :up:
 

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Nice guys offer no CHALLENGE--this is their biggest drawback.

Women, (agreed that 99% are emotionally driven) WANT some sort of mini-drama or guessing game with their man. Not all-out soap opera crap, but the guy should say "NO" once in a while, disagree with her on a topic for the heck of it (even if you DO agree--"F" with her playfully) and have your own life (a BIG must).

Nice guy’s personalities aren't that strong and they are not passionate about much because they are SO afraid of making people "MAD."

SO the F what if people don't agree with your opinion?! Women see this--and like it in a guy.

Nice guys are not BOLD either. Take your woman when she least expects it, gently hold the back of her head, stare at her with a small smile for 5-10 seconds, then kiss her deeply on the lips w/o saying a word. Look at her again when you're done for 5 seconds, smile, and go back to whatever. She will F-ing MELT.

Nice guys wouldn't DARE do this--way too bold.

ALWAYS err on the side of being bold, assertive, outgoing, gunslinger--ALWAYS.
 

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Yeah, Francisco, that gal had so cool an attitude it seemed unreal, like a some sort of setup to fvck with the guy.

ALWAYS err on the side of being bold, assertive, outgoing, gunslinger--ALWAYS.
Unless it could get you in prison, or something like that.
 

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Yeah, I practically got a hard-on just hearing the gal sing the praises of a "friendship with benefits," Francisco. Wouldn't mind experiencing those benefits with her first-hand at all. :cool:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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