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Originally posted by 00Kevin
Nice guys become crazy men because they do everything girls ask of them but it doesn't get them laid.
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THERE IT IS BABY!
That was MY problem, before I came to this site.
I mean, it makes sense, right? You are a young guy, trying to figure things out, and you hear girls complain about how bad all these "bad" guys are treating her, and then she turns to you, LOOKS YOU RIGHT IN THE FACE, and tells you "you are sooo sweet.....don't EVER change," and "however finds you is going to be LUCKY." You think you are on to something....you are hearing what women want right from the woman! This is so easy! I just listen to what they complain about, don't do it, and I will get ALL the girls!! I will be the KING! Right? WRONG.
You realize, much, much later that girls LIE about what they REALLY want. You even OBSERVE them actually CRY at movies where the "good guy" gets the girl at the end. I have had MOTHERS actually tell me in TEARS that I was "too good" for their daughters. My OWN MOTHER gave me bad advice about girls, and raised me to respect them and put them on pedastals. And a bunch of crap about "they are not the one for you."
NOTHING MAKES SENSE.
That is why I don't buy this crap when some of you in here say, "you LET her use you, you gave away your power," blah blah. The truth of the matter is that NOBODY bothered to tell the boysthis world how to handle women, only how to SUPPLICATE to them, because they are, after all, "sugar and spice."
Then one day, you just get so mad, you either do something STUPID, or you do what I did and find this site and take your anger out on the weights. You trully have to go through a phase of hating women to actually be successful with them later. I REALLY believe that.
It's not that men don't understand women, WOMEN don't understand women.