"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why women can't be "Studs"

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Seriously, I'm sick of women b1tching about "double standards". They cry and moan about how men can sleep around and be praised, but if they do the same then they are shunned.

I say fvck that sh1t. There is no double standard. A double standard would imply that both parties are on equal grounds with both having it exactly the same. But i'm here to say right now the the game is not the same for men and women.

women....excuse me B1tches have it so easy it's not even funny. All they have to do is be hot and boom, they can be fabulous. They will have tons of friends, get tons of date offers, and be of high status just because they are hot. a women doesn't need to be confident and have game like a man does. they can work minimum wage and be borderline mute, but as long as she's hot men will fvck her and praise her.

men don't have it this easy. we actually have to work for our sex. We need to dress nice, be confident, be strong, fit, and actually have goals in life. we need good jobs and good personalities. If you are caught dead without those then no woman would give you a second thought. Hell the old ass song "scrubs" by TLC says this plain as day. Women don't want "broke" men. You'd be hard pressed to find a male version of this song...

B1tches make me sick. it's a double standard because you don't have to work at all to get sex. men actually have to earn it. People praise work, not cheats. would you praise superman for dominating UFC? I don't think so
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This has been said here before. And yes, it is true. A women is a slut, and a man is a stud for having sleeping around with the opposite sex a lot because the man has to work for sex.

You seem pretty upset, though, care to share the experience that pissed you off? Or did you just come to this realization all of a sudden?
 

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SexxiKing777 said:
Seriously, I'm sick of women b1tching about
{snip a bunch of whining, biatching, and complaining}
You do realize that you are exactly like what you are complaining about.

It's called projection. You're doing it right now and the volume knob is set to 11.
 

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women....excuse me B1tches have it so easy it's not even funny. All they have to do is be hot
All right, but what if they're not hot? All of a sudden it isn't so easy for them, is it? All of a sudden it's better to be a guy because a guy can improve himself.
 

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zekko said:
All right, but what if they're not hot? All of a sudden it isn't so easy for them, is it? All of a sudden it's better to be a guy because a guy can improve himself.
I dunno about that. I've seen some ugly b*tches going out with some decent looking dudes.

Sure, you may not get as much play, but ***** is *****, and someone somewhere out there wants to hit it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Some not so attractive girls I know definitely get more attention and play than even alot of the really attractive guys I know.

The difference is, those girls would be forgotten about in a heartbeat if a better girl came along, and are used as nothing more than a drunken desperation ****.

On the surface it seems like those girls get plenty of attention, but I don't think its the kind of attention you'd want for your self esteem. Life would be tough being an unattractive girl.
 

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I dunno about that. I've seen some ugly b*tches going out with some decent looking dudes.
I don't think you've seen some of the sea hags I know :)
 

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zekko said:
All right, but what if they're not hot? All of a sudden it isn't so easy for them, is it? All of a sudden it's better to be a guy because a guy can improve himself.
I agree with this, I'd rather control my own destiny.

Girls CAN improve their chances though by wearing hot clothes and being extra flirty.
 

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zekko said:
I don't think you've seen some of the sea hags I know :)
Hahaha, spare me the details ;)

I know this chick that was decent looking back in the day when I met her, but since then BLEW the f*ck up. She's f*ckin massive! But the guy she was with was, well, he was no Johnny Depp, but I'm sure he could do much better if he wasn't such a huge AFC.

She wasn't ugly, per se, but nothing I'd settle for. In fact, they got MARRIED. I dunno, some guys get really desperate, I guess.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Money and/or the right colored passport can make any guy into a perfect "10". I have seen ugly older men get married to 17 year old beauties more than once. If you understand what drives people such couples make a lot of sense. Females (even in the feminized hell that is America) mostly just want security and the ability to buy stuff. Physical attraction is something gay men look for in other men. So as long as you are not really short I doubt if you have much to worry about physically.

What you might think is ugly might be a big turn on for some guys and vice versa. I wouldn't go near what Tiger Woods was getting. Yet, obviously he found them to be worthy of his money and affection. To each his own. Thank God we are not all the same!
 

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I dunno about that. The current girl I want now , had the abilty to be attractive but chose to wear men's clothing,not wear make up and not style her hair. She couldn't get anybody no matter how had she tried. Now she's hot as hell and has to beat the guys off of her. Unfortunitly to her, it just means that guys are shalow and all she wants is a guy to love her, so not I have to work past that. All I'm saying is maybe we wouldn't have to work so hard at getting laid if our standards wern't so high.
 

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From what I've seen, the average girl will have it 100 times easier when it comes to getting laid than the average man. I could go as far as saying a girl who's a 3 or 4 could get laid easier than a guy who's 7 or 8 in terms of looks. An average woman is almost GUARANTEED to get laid if she wants to by just going to a bar. So yeah, that's the root of the double standard.

It's mostly biological, not some social construct invented by men that feminists like to claim. The discrepancy is caused by the 80/20 rule, where 20% of the men (alpha males basically) do 80% of the fvcking meaning that for the other 80% of guys there are limited options.

Men are biologically designed to fvck as many females as possible, paying more attention to the most attractive. That is it. Women are biologically designed to fvck the highest quality males possible. They should be selective because of the risk of pregnancy by an unsuitable male.

There is also the "slut" factor. A woman with a reputation of sleeping around will find it harder to get a high quality male to commit. Why? Because she may cheat. If a man cheats then of course the female partner will be unhappy but there is no real risk to her if she still gets his attention and provision. If a woman cheats it's a whole different ball game because she can get pregnant, and no one wants to be a cuckold.

The biggest irony of it is that although women can get sex much easier, the majority of the time they want more than that. Women are designed to become attached to one man and commit to him whether he commits to her or not. So although women love sex just as much as men they often want more than just sex, despite what the sexual revolution tells them.

And that's my take on the double standard lol
 

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I'll try to change your mindset a bit now.

Put it like this:
Even though my name says "Perfect10" I'd say I'm a 7 -7,5.
On an awesome night when I'm "lording" the club I can pull 9's and 10's easily.
Normally I get 8's since 7's aren't high enough in my standards so I won't even try.

Now you see I'm a 7 and I'm getting 9's and 10's. But if a HB 7 is trying to pick me up I'll probably just make out with her for fun then leave her there and go for hotter chicks.

Do you get me?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Men will screw ANYTHING. Sure they'd prefer a hot chick, but they'll take just about whatever else they can find. Not only can ugly women get sex much easy than good-looking men can, REPULSIVE women can get PAID for sex. Just take a stroll through your friendly area skid-row district. You might see sickly nasty skeletor AIDS-patient looking women selling vagina. You might see ugly manly-looking men with adam's apples in high heels and crooked whigs selling sex (try not to throw up). You hear about rich guys, guys with wives or girlfriends, and good jobs cruising these areas in their expensive cars looking for cheap n' easy bj's on the side. That is how nasty a lot of men are. So basically it is impossible for any women to have any problems whatsoever getting sex.

Women's problem is that they may have trouble getting relationships. They all want the top man. The top man can and will have sex with lots and lots of them but relationships are time consuming. He can't have relationships with all of them. So a lot of women end up alone complaining, especially as they get older. Men are probably happier and better off if they're just about getting their rocks off.
 

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PappyS said:
Men will screw ANYTHING. Sure they'd prefer a hot chick, but they'll take just about whatever else they can find. Not only can ugly women get sex much easy than good-looking men can, REPULSIVE women can get PAID for sex. Just take a stroll through your friendly area skid-row district. You might see sickly nasty skeletor AIDS-patient looking women selling vagina. You might see ugly manly-looking men with adam's apples in high heels and crooked whigs selling sex (try not to throw up). You hear about rich guys, guys with wives or girlfriends, and good jobs cruising these areas in their expensive cars looking for cheap n' easy bj's on the side. That is how nasty a lot of men are. So basically it is impossible for any women to have any problems whatsoever getting sex.

Exactly. It really doesn't matter what you look like if you're a chick. Yeah, you may not be able to enter a relationship as easy as a hot chick..but sex is no problem at all. Right on with the prostitute thing. There's some NASTY ass hookers out there. But to be a gigolo you must have your shit nailed to a tee. No male escort agency is going to hire some fatass with bacon grease dripping down his shirt that talks like he has never been out of the Ozarks and think that the "G-spot" has something to do with sports.
 
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