The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
yeah , me personally my expectation from women is too make my life better , either by improving my standard of living ( basically brining money , and thus reducing my day to day expenses ) , either from a support role (improving my morale when things are not that good for example ) . Number 2 is a must , while number 1 is a nice to have
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yep. I've walked away more than a few times. I've taken a few back, but they had to pay a priceactually it makes sense what you are saying ...
Most likely they think that I would not walk away , and this is why they continue with this
; I then got rid of them shortly after. LOL. I've documented one or two of them here back 2018.
Happens with either gender I assume. Can't confirm as I've never been with a dude.
You only want to be with a woman that will lift you up rather than bring you down.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Its not unreasonable but look at the environment.
you know ... actually what kinda makes me sad is that you see that this kind of people actually have really low self esteem
That's been discussed before that the reason it happens like that is the exact OPPOSITE of what you might think.you know ... actually what kinda makes me sad is that you see that this kind of people actually have really low self esteem
and I guess that by trying to pull you down they feel good about themselves
I am quite an emphatical person , and I guess that this is why I do not walk away faster than I should
