WHY WHY WHY does the same thing keep happening to me!!!!!???

[vegas_pimp]

Every girlfriend I have, no matter how much I really love her or care about her or any of that...........I always end up wanting to hook up with at least 1 of her friends!!!

whenever a girlfriend of mine introduces me to her circle of friends, there's always a hotter girl that gives me crazy flirty eye contact (I wanna fcuk you eyes) and is extra playful (but of course won't hook up with me cuz im dating her friend) and im at the point now where this is TRULY ANNOYING

no matter who the girl is that I am with, I keep wanting to get with one of her friends who always seems to be much more sexier to me


am I just too much in the player mindset or is this natural??

I am sure of many things when it comes to dating, but I am actually not sure of this

can someone please help me out????

 

[Master Bates]

You wanna fuk hotter girls? no way thats natural.

 

[vegas_pimp]

You wanna fuk hotter girls? no way thats natural.

this has been a recurring theme basically every single time a girlfriend introduces me to her friends.........i mean I meet her friend, her friend gives me OBVIOUS flirting signs, and there I am with my gf and i cant do anything with the girl im hot for at the moment (aka her friend), and I just feel annoyed and like an ******* cuz in all these cases my gf really cares bout me and it seems like all I want is to just get with her friend who at the moment is more appealing to me (maybe not even cuz she is hotter, but because fresh meat looks better than what u already have naturally)

i dunno its so weird im just wonderin what I should do as a solution to these kinda situations!

 

[flnazrael]

Perhaps if you cut of your penis, you'll stop experiencing these sensations.

 

[dap]

I know what you are feeling, but you have to keep this in mind: these girls want you because you are taken and therefore a challenge. If you go after them, your girlfriend will dump you, and her hot friend will lose intrest, and you will be left with nothing.

 

[theunflushables]

Yeah, its because we're men. Get used to it, because this will happen for the rest of your life.

 

[everywomanshero]

Capitalizing opportunities to spread genes allowed your genetic makeup to continue to exist. I believe this is probably an innate mechanism rather than some sort of conditioned response, so its function is to help get you laid more and spread your genes.

 

[PrinceBeavis]

F#*K, I could really use some encouragement right now.

 

[vegas_pimp]

yea i did act on it before once and ended up dumping my gf and falling in love with her friend.......but most times I dont do it - is there a way to hook up with my gf's friend and keep it no strings attached so my gf doesnt find out??

 

[illslapyabfup]

if she jus a 6itch go for it..but if u have any respect for that girl on any level dont scoop low and bang her friend while u wit her...dont burn bridges

 

[smooth guy]

****ing your girlfriend's girlfriend is a bad idea. Women are evil and if something goes wrong with the other girl rest assured your girlfriend WILL find out. Doesn't mean she will hear the real story, more likely you will end up looking like the scum bag that tried to seduce her.

As far as feeling attraction for other girls that's pretty normal. Males are ****s. You already "won" your gf, thus now you are always looking for a challenge and we always want women we can't have or that would be more of a challenge to us. Since she is called officialy your "gf" then she isn't as much of a challenge as her hot friend.

 

[vegas_pimp]

****ing your girlfriend's girlfriend is a bad idea. Women are evil and if something goes wrong with the other girl rest assured your girlfriend WILL find out. Doesn't mean she will hear the real story, more likely you will end up looking like the scum bag that tried to seduce her.

As far as feeling attraction for other girls that's pretty normal. Males are ****s. You already "won" your gf, thus now you are always looking for a challenge and we always want women we can't have or that would be more of a challenge to us. Since she is called officialy your "gf" then she isn't as much of a challenge as her hot friend.

okay well lets look at my recent situation.........my gf of 2 months took me to a party and this is the party where i was going to meet alot of her friends for the first time.

I am 22 and she's 18.......so anyway I am meeting all her friends, bla bla bla, and then I see one 19 year old gymnast friend of hers absolutely eyeing me down saying with her eyes I WANNA FCUK YOU, and she also goes up and gives me 2 random hugs and tells me shes a kinky one..........so yea thats not a challenge by any means - more like an easy peice of azz.

my gf is there the whole time and I am not really reacting physically to any of this flirting, however in my head im turned on as hell - so my gf doesnt suspect anything.

then playfully my gf says after we leave the party "that girl was hitting on you" DAMN its like she said that on purpose, like its some kinda girly game


by the way, before anyone blasts out saying how I should not commit to any 1 girl her age, dont worry about it - i got other plates always spinning, no oneitis here

im wondering if somehow I could use myspace and look up her friend and just send her a harmless (supposedly lol) message saying hey wassup I found you on my gf's friends list and just saying hi

its harmless to the point where my gf cant get mad, but its also an OBVIOUS sign to the other girl that i wanna get with her

what do you guys think?

 

[Alphamale1821]

I would say thats a good idea dude but just be careful if you get to be more involved with the other chick. If anything goes sour you'll be the bad guy in the end. But above all just have fun and play the game smart.

 

[Raikojo17]

^^^ no it's not.

i agree with smooth. first it's not worth the trouble. and second, y would you want to crush your gf's care and trust like that by going after her friend? your feeding that girls evilness...you kno how girls are. most of them are hatin ass b1tches, and get jealous so easily. they would risk there friendship to get the guy the feel "they" should have gotten.

why would you sink to their level? risking your relationship jus for some ass?

you must not really care for your gf's if you are so willing to cheat on them.
liking other women is natural, but that doesnt give you an excuse to cheat.

 

[vegas_pimp]

^^^ no it's not.

i agree with smooth. first it's not worth the trouble. and second, y would you want to crush your gf's care and trust like that by going after her friend? your feeding that girls evilness...you kno how girls are. most of them are hatin ass b1tches, and get jealous so easily. they would risk there friendship to get the guy the feel "they" should have gotten.

why would you sink to their level? risking your relationship jus for some ass?

you must not really care for your gf's if you are so willing to cheat on them.
liking other women is natural, but that doesnt give you an excuse to cheat.

so this is a thought i been having - am i a heartless player? cuz yea i do think that hookin up with a gf's friend would be hot............id actually love to snap out of it and feel like im in love cuz i used to be a loving guy about 2 years ago but too many girls screwin me over caused me to be too much of a player now

 

[Alphamale1821]

^^^ no it's not.

i agree with smooth. first it's not worth the trouble. and second, y would you want to crush your gf's care and trust like that by going after her friend? your feeding that girls evilness...you kno how girls are. most of them are hatin ass b1tches, and get jealous so easily. they would risk there friendship to get the guy the feel "they" should have gotten.

why would you sink to their level? risking your relationship jus for some ass?

you must not really care for your gf's if you are so willing to cheat on them.
liking other women is natural, but that doesnt give you an excuse to cheat.

If he isn't in love with the girl then their isn't anything all that bad about it. Well it is bad cheating on someone who cares about you but hey he's a young guy and he wants to have some fun. Not to mention if you bothered to read the entire thread he has already pointed out that he is spinning other plates so i don' think he's worried about actually cheating but the act it's self IE: getting caught. Vegas i say go for it man you only live once just remember that karma does make it's way around some time or another just keep living. Good luck and keep us updated i'm rather intrigued with how this will work out.:crackup:

 

[Raikojo17]

If he isn't in love with the girl then their isn't anything all that bad about it. Well it is bad cheating on someone who cares about you but hey he's a young guy and he wants to have some fun. Not to mention if you bothered to read the entire thread he has already pointed out that he is spinning other plates so i don' think he's worried about actually cheating but the act it's self IE: getting caught. Vegas i say go for it man you only live once just remember that karma does make it's way around some time or another just keep living. Good luck and keep us updated i'm rather intrigued with how this will work out.:crackup:

yea, karma is a b1tch. he can go for it if he really wants, but he better not make a thread about how his gf hooked up with his bestfriend and dumped him when it happens

 

[penkitten]

it means you are not ready to be tied down right now.