"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Furyguy

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I just read this article about West Coast Service Providers. It's a site that sets up women with guys who are willing to pay for sex.

TC said:
I introduced myself to one of the gawkers, a hobbyist named FriscoLove, whose name I recognized from the site as a prolific poster who'd reviewed dozens of providers.

I asked him what the appeal of escorts was. He was young and reasonably good-looking with a decent personality and presumably some cash to spend. Why didn't he date "normal" girls? What was the attraction of providers?

"Hobby is a thrill in life," he explained. "You get to taste a lot of flavors and enjoy the game.

"After my wife left me, a friend set me up with a provider, but I had no idea she was a provider. It was a great experience.

"I then went on a civi date, a 'real' girl. I spent over 300 on dinner and entertainment. At the end of the evening, she pecked me on the cheek, said she had fun, and asked to do it again. Didn't even get to 1st base.

"I got home and called my first hobby date girl. She was there in less than an hour and I was hooked.

"She showed me the site and I now enjoy this type of no strings attached sex regularly. It's the best and getting to know a lot of the hotties is the bonus.

"I used to date actresses and models, but I never rounded third base. So, this is the thrill of hobby."
That just about sums up AFC, eh?

Rest of the article here:
http://www.t-nation.com/free_online_article/sex_news_sports_funny_grok/the_computer_as_pimp
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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piranha45

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reading about that aFC's dating experience is painful, but nonetheless I can understand how nice it would be to open your door to an attractive female, whom you throw on the bed and **** without any conversation. But geez, expensive!
 

Jitterbug

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Still a lot cheaper than a messy divorce!
 

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Who the fck spends $300 on a first date?
 
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