"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why we sleep

DEEZEDBRAH

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Fellas, i came across JRE podcast with Dr Matthew Walker. I've watched it a ton of times before purchasing the book. It is one of the top ten books I've read in my life. This is coming from a fella who reads more than a book a week. Probably closer to more thsn 60 a year.


I am probably biased given my predisposition eith insomnia. I have been doing pickup for the better part of a decade (in between relations, biz, life etc). In my teens and twenties, i woukd fo all night(ers) without consequences. At 30, ****KKK THAT. I use to burn it to the ground. At 30, no chance I compromise 8hrs of deep sleep. No women are worthy of me compromising my sleep. The results has been staggering.

My lifts have been ridiculous. I have in the past noticed a 60% decrease in output of performance in the gym. In terms of biz, I have worked 50% less than I did the year before and I have made more money. I contribute the following to deeper REM sleep aiding in the following. I have seen a significant improvement in cognitive function. I noticed more attention to women. I have seen more people reciprocate to my advances. I have been more aware of subtle little things. I have seen how much of a difference sleep makes.

The book was incredible. I cannot stress enough about the value of the book. I have really worked on self care. Sleep game on point has been a goal of mine last year. In 2019, I want to crank it up a notch. I still struggle to get the full 8hrs sometimes.

I no longer workout late at night. I am more aware about my caffeine sensitivity so, i refrain from intake after dinner. I bought new bedding, 1500 thc Egyptian cotton sheets, new duvet, a sleep mask, and a few pillows. One body pillow, a bamboo pillow, and a tempurpedic cooling gel pillow. I have a year old bed. In a year I will buy a tempurpedic bed.

Anyway, I have a renewed love for sleep. If you won't read a book, get the audible, and listen on the commute to work.

I likely will continue to bump this thread.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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