"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why was this awkward?

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About two months ago, I went on two dates and they went really really well and of course I screwed it up by not closing either one with a kiss... Seriously don't ask why.... I know I f'd it up. So I ask for the third date and I get the run around.

I've stayed in touch in her by texting once a week and she always replies back the next day.

A couple of weeks ago, I hung out with friends and she was there (We have mutual friends). It was awkward. It was the first time we've seen each other since the 2nd date. I can tell both of us felt awkward and uncomfortable throughout the night. I played it cool the whole night. I socialized with everyone and really didn't focus on her at all. When we did talk, it was more flirty than anything else.... At the end of the night, I felt really bad cause I should have broken through the awkwardness and just make both of us feel comfortable. So the next day, I sent a text apologizing for the awkwardness knowing I could have broken it. She replied back the day after, "No worries. Just another night out with the guys. Good to see you again."

I haven't spoken to her or seen her since then... so that's 2 weeks and yes, I've been seeing other women.

So a couple of questions:

1. Why was it awkward between us?
2. I know I'm in the FZ but why not give it last hoorah. I was thinking of asking her if she would like join me when I go to the museum. Something non-threatening..something I would do on my own anyway? So how much longer should I wait to contact her? Any suggestions? Anything I should do differently? If she said yes...I know what to do. Trust me!
3. If she says no...how do I play it out?

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you really really like this women then what you need to do is cut contact with her, then get out there and get some experience with some other women. Get out there and date 20 different women, your gonna strike out with a lot of them, but more importantly you'll get better at different things, you'll become more successful and better at the game.

After you do that, then you can come back to this one because right now with your skill set, your only going to chase this women away. You've already put yourself in the FZ. Your only going to dig yourself deeper. Dating these other women will only give you confidence and social proof which will help you with this women.
 
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