"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why was the board down?

HolyG

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The board was down yesterday, anyone have any idea why?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The fact that this board was down and I felt completely lost without it, scares me a little lol...I might have gotten a little too attatched to this place huh!!
 

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Gears of Led Zep said:
The fact that this board was down and I felt completely lost without it, scares me a little lol...I might have gotten a little too attatched to this place huh!!

Why don't you turn off your computer for a week. I guarantee you that you'll have a more productive, fulfilling life then checking sosuave everyday.
 

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uh... didn't even notice it was down... prob just routine maintenance
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mpimpin said:
uh... didn't even notice it was down... prob just routine maintenance

Not routine. It was down more than a day, more like 5 days, on and off. Though sosuave.com was on. Didn't really miss it, just was curious what's up. I'm in a place far away enough that ping might not reach the server and site could appear down even though it's up and running, so I thought it's that, and not site down.

By the way, I'm picking you guys up from 62.19.52.251 in Britain. Servers must be in Britain?
 

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Britain... wow... secrets are kept even from the mods...

I've noticed it's taken about two or three tries to get on the last few days, but I eventually get through
 
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